May mga bagay na hindi binibigay sa’yo dahil sa iba’t ibang dahilan. Pero paano mo malalaman ang mga dahilan na iyon kung patuloy mo pinipilit ang sarili mo sa bagay na hindi para sa’yo. Kung patuloy mo iniisip na dadating din ang araw na mangyayari ang nasa isip mo na tama at magpapasaya sa’yo. Minsan… Continue reading KUNG HINDI SA’YO, HAYAAN MO NA.
Category: Adulting
Here’s To All The Things I’d Like To Thank For 2018
I’d like to thank time. Through you, I knew what waiting should be like; I knew what living and cherishing the moment means. Thank you for giving hours, minutes, and seconds for me to understand that some things are not yet too late on trying and not too late doing. Thank you for telling me that… Continue reading Here’s To All The Things I’d Like To Thank For 2018
Your Existence Made My World Once A Better Place
It was years ago. Thousands of days had passed. We are now living different lives, we learn life lessons in a hard and beautiful way, we are now living completely in a diverse world of complexity, we met a lot of new people and we made new friends. But after all these years, I came… Continue reading Your Existence Made My World Once A Better Place
When Life Seems Lost
I wish I can still understand the ways of life. Sometimes there are days that seems it’s hard to breathe and you cannot fathom the nothingness of emotions that’s circling around your bones. There are times as if you are blindly confined inside the darkness of your own confusion and reveries and no matter how… Continue reading When Life Seems Lost
What It Feels Like To Live Somewhere In Between
I’ve been living this life of somewhere in between and I couldn’t even express the feeling of what is inside this betweenness. I don’t know where I am exactly. It isn’t about the place, the exact location and point, not even a landmark. But it is about where my life stands right now, where I… Continue reading What It Feels Like To Live Somewhere In Between
What I Have Learned About Love
Love is . . . not a fairy tale that I used to dream when I was a kid filled with hopes and fantasies. . . . not about “he is handsome” but about whether “he fears God.” . . . not about the checklist but the perfect moment when God orchestrates everything for the… Continue reading What I Have Learned About Love
A Positive in Something Negative
Stressed? Depressed? Worried? Bothered? Add in all the -ed of a pessimistic person. No matter how hard we say in our Facebook profile, in our online and offline bios that we are an optimistic person and that we always see the positive in everything. We can never omit the smallest chance of thingking something negative… Continue reading A Positive in Something Negative
Huminga Ka, Lumaban Ka
Minsan, ang pagiging matapang ay hindi pagsagip ng buhay ng iba kapalit ang buhay mo. Minsan ang pagiging matapang ay ang pagbangon araw araw na kaya mong harapin ang mundo kahit hindi mo gusto. Ang katapangan ay nasa pagsikap mong kumbinsihin ang sarili mo na hindi naman ito ang katapusan at ang makumbinsi ka na… Continue reading Huminga Ka, Lumaban Ka
Woman, It’s not your role.
Woman, It’s not your role. It’s not your role to send him a message or chat him first, kasi in the first place hindi naman sya nangangamusta. It’s not your role to stalk him on his social media account(s) para tingnan kung anong recent post nya, or even to wait kung may My Day ba… Continue reading Woman, It’s not your role.
10 Pieces of Advice to Every Woman (Wordplay Version)
10 pieces of advice to every woman (using wordplays of Philippine provinces and/or tourist destinations) Sundin mo ang SIARGAO ng puso mo. A new haircut. A new job. A new adventure. As long as it makes you happy at alam mong wala kang naaagrabyadong ibang tao, go lang ng go! Aminin mo man o hindi,… Continue reading 10 Pieces of Advice to Every Woman (Wordplay Version)
Wag All Out! Set Boundaries!
Boundaries Another important aspect of a relationship is to respect each other’s personal boundaries. A boundary is a property line that defines where you end, and someone else begins. Good relationships have a high degree of respect for each person respecting the other’s “person.” One way you can tell someone respects your boundaries, is whether… Continue reading Wag All Out! Set Boundaries!