Relationships

Not everyone has the courage to admit that they hurt somebody and because of our reluctance to accept that we hurt someone, the world continuously hurt. Pain, I think, will only start to vanish, if we accept that we are beings in dire need of grace. Humility is always the Continue Reading

Masaya ka pa ba sa pagsasama ninyong dalawa? Kasi kung hindi ka na masaya pwede ka namang bumitaw. Pwede ka namang umalis kasi kung mahal ka pa niya hindi siya gagawa ng paraan para hindi ka na maging masaya. Huwag kang magsettle sa isang relasyong “toxic” na ang dating. Deserve Continue Reading

Sa unang pagtatagpo na tadhana ang bumuo, Na walang kasiguraduhan kung saan nga ba tutungo. Mga pusong naninimbang kung ano nga ba ang nadarama, sa twing tayong dalawa ay magkasama. Isip kong naguguluhan kung ano nga ba ang meron sa ating dalawa, mga mata kong mulat sa gabi sa kakaisip Continue Reading

Hindi ok kapag nandiyan ka Pero lalong hindi ok na wala ka.

You were there when I left for Siargao. Not physically but it was better because you gave me the sanity (I needed). We talked for hours everyday. Your night was my day and mine was yours. We were talking like we’re a thing. Sometimes I get lost with your words Continue Reading

Like waves, you hit me with words I never wish to hear. You caught me off guard. No armor, no sword. I was naked. soul, heart and mind. But you didn’t see that you failed to see that. I am always vulnerable when it comes to you. Like a newly Continue Reading

“I survived 2018 being single (tatlong taon na pala akong single), dahil sa mga bagay na ‘to.” 1. Mga walang kakwenta-kwentang “Memes” na shini-share ng mga pasaway mong kaibigan. 2. Mga loko-loko mong mga kaibigan na nagshi-share ng mga videos na minsan inspiring pero kadalasan karumal-dumal, hahaha. 3. Mga friends Continue Reading

Natakot ako sa mga tanong na “Hanggang Kailan” at “Hanggang Saan”, Natakot ako sa salitang “Hangganan”. Hindi ito pumasok sa isip ko noong una. Hindi ito pumasok sa isip ko noong malaya kong tinanggap sa puso’t isip ko na mahal na kita. Hindi ito pumasok sa isip ko noong mga Continue Reading

Walls. Also known as barrier, partition, enclosure, screen, panel, divider; etc. It can be made of paper, wood or concrete. But for me it is made of experiences.   Couple of years ago I decided to build this wall not to shut everyone out but to protect this precious heart Continue Reading

Always the kina-kaibigan pero never the kinaka-ibigan. Well, that’s life, I guess. O kaya naman siguro yan ung purpose na binigay sayo ni Lord. Ang maging kaibigan ng mga taong gusto mo. Wala eh, hindi talaga nadedevelop sila sayo. Hanggang kaibigan lang. Hanggang dun lang. Tinetreasure ka, may care sayo, mahal ka, Continue Reading

“And They Live Happily Ever After…Ooops” Everyday, we are all fascinated by those lovestories na nababasa natin sa mga books. Specifically, those with “happy endings.” Everyday, as we watch those successful endings sa mga movies na paborito natin, di rin natin mapigilan na mag-wish na sana ganun din ang mangyari Continue Reading

Kahit naman ako nag-tataka, kung papano iiwasan, kung papano iilag, kung papaanong hindi masasaktan. Pero sa kada galaw bakit parang nakabuntot ka? Bakit parang kahit anong pag-lilibang ang ipuno sa isipan, wala akong magawa. Ultimong yung lalagyan ng paminta at asin na ginagamit ko noong nai-pagluluto pa kita ‘di ako Continue Reading

Warrior,   I know you tried hard. I know you prayed as much as you could. I know you prepared as much as you can.   But I know that you know that she’s allowed to say “No.”   I know it’s hard. You probably cry yourself at night. Or probably wake Continue Reading

Being single in a world full of couples is kinda hard. Walang halong biro, napaka hirap. Nakaka bitter friend! Yung sa office may mga couples na naglalampungan sa gilid. May boyfriend na mag hahatid ng food sa girlfriend niya na workmate ko. Yung best friend ko na binibisita ng boyfriend Continue Reading

Tama Na Siguro, madami ka nang ipinaglaban na sa huli hindi ka ipinaglaban. Maaring, minsan mo na ring ibinuhos ang lahat ng meron ka para patunayan na sa relasyong ito, hindi totoong may hangganan. Baka nga, hinigpitan mo na rin ang kapit mo na kahit parang isang daliri nalang ang Continue Reading

Meeting new people is the hardest thing we have to do on a daily basis. Believe us, this is ultimately a struggle. It pushes us to our limit to start a new conversation, how can we put up ourselves together so that we are able to cope with societal interactions. Continue Reading

Siguro kaya ko pang maghintay Kaya ko pang magtiis Kaya ko pang umasang babalik ka Kaya ko pang hawakan yung mga pangako mo Siguro kaya ko pang mahalin ka Siguro nga pwede pang ituloy yung kaya pa Siguro nga pwede pang gamutin lahat ng sugat Siguro kaya ko pa Siguro Continue Reading

My love. It has been a long time since I wrote for you. Maybe because in the deepest corner of my heart, my faith is crumbling. That you are real. I’ve got nothing to offer anyway. So why would you spare your time with me. There were times you made Continue Reading

Minsan akala natin love life lang ang nag-end pag nag-end na ang relasyon. Pero di natin namamalayan naaapektuhan din ang ibang aspects ng buhay natin, like work, friends, and family relationships. That is why we really need to be careful kung sinong pinapapasok natin sa buhay natin. Kung sinong ina-aattach-an Continue Reading