Sa ngayon, ako muna

Alam ko masarap na may kahawakan ng kamay tuwing naglalakad. Masarap sa pakiramdam na mayroon kang mapakilala sa mga kaibigan mo. May taga hatid at sundo ka. May kasabay ka maglunch o magdinner. May litrato kang malalagay sa social media ac...

That thing called “waiting”

Have you ever tried to list down all the different dating advices you’ve heard? or how about searching in google on “what to do while waiting?” Being a girl is so weird. We are basically programmed to be in love in the concept of love. T...

Singles, Maximize Your Season

For so many years that I’ve been a Christian and spending time and ministering to some single men for years, and observing some of my friends who are single, most of them thought that singleness is a sickness. Whether be it a single man ...

It ‘HIT’ me

I was so down, heavily depressed, and downright mad at the whole world one Sunday morning when I woke up with a heavy headache around 11 am.  I’m one of the youth leaders in my local church, It’s such a provoking thought to not be included ...

Single. Mag isa. Pero Hindi Malungkot

"Singleness is not a sickness" yan yung natutunan ko. Kung baga Blessed Singleness sabi nila. Oo, Single ako at matagal ng single sampung taon na mula ng first breakup ko sa una naging boyfriend ko. At after wala na ako naging boyfriend....

ugly but can make you happy

HUWAG MAGING MARUPOK

What makes you beautiful

Are you tired of being betrayed? Left hanging? Or that girl na laging “pinapaasa”? And you be like, bakit nya kaya nagawa sakin yun? Pangit ba ko? Pangit ba ang katawan ko? Kapalit-palit ba ko? THEN WHY!? (Just kidding. Just tryin’ to be Li...

My not so charming prince and I

Have you ever thought of living in a fairytale? You being Cinderella, Aurora or Snow White. Well, I do. Ever since I was a child I've always  dreamt of having a prince saving me from my distress. I love watching those princesses meeting ...

27 years old, never had a boy friend

Kung iniisip mong maeencourage ka sa mababasa mo, next blog na lang unahin mo.   Sa totoo lang wala namang deadline ang pagkakaron ng karelasyon. Pero with all honesty, gusto natin yung may makakausap at makakaintindi satin. Kaso...

Things A Woman Should Not Say

Things A Woman Should Not Say Unless you want to be judged. ********* You woke up with a sound of clock ticking. Tick tock. Tick tock. Tick tock. You tried to ignore it. Yet the more you tried not to think about it, it keeps on ringing...

Iwas Sawi: Tips Para Hindi Ka Umasa

Hey there, single ladies (and guys)! I have heard so many brokenhearted girls complaining about how they’ve been led on by some guy and how they felt like they’ve been betrayed, lied to or cheated on (Pinaasa nya lang ako! Akala ko ...

They :SINGLE ka pa rin? Me: Bakit may quota ba?

"They: SINGLE ka pa rin mag2- 2019 na ha? Me: May quota ba?" Well for sure, madami sa atin ang may mga ganitong mga bagay sa isip natin, na  gusto nating sabihin sa mga nag sasabi na "mag 2-2019 na.. baka single ka padin?".  Hindi maali...

I Am Beautiful

Before you roll your eyes after reading the title, I’d like to set proper expectations; I’m not being conceited. Yes, I mean it. I am beautiful. So are you. Beauty. Let’s admit it. Most of the time, our basis of beauty doesn’t go beyond ...

You Will Find Your Home Someday

Sometimes we wonder if there's someone out there. Someone who will welcome our hearts without pain, without doubt, without questions and second thoughts. Someone who will finally tell us "You are my home". Someday, our hearts will find its ...

No Boyfriend Since Birth?

“You’re too picky.” “Your standards are too high.” “Why don’t you try dating for experience?” I always hear those phrases from people who knew about my ‘relationship status’, some, from my friends. One time, I talked to a group of yo...

December Singleness—So, What?

We had it all wrong all along. I don’t know about you but do you ever hear people or read some statuses about your friends groaning on social media because they don’t have a girlfriend or boyfriend to spend this Christmas with? I am sure...

Things To While You are Still Single

SinglenessIsNotASickness KNOW YOUR PURPOSE - Being single is part of God's ultimate plan in your life. Allow God to mold you in his likeness and discover where God called you in this life. Believe me you are in this season for a reas...

I am having an affair with myself

  People think that I have been single for so long. For a time, I have believed in this too. But years went by and I started to realize that I am not really single. Truth is, I am having an affair with myself. I smile when I get ...

You Thought It’s The BEST THING That You Never Had

I thought it's the best thing that I never had. This is for every one who thinks that their life is already done when every thing they had in mind and planned for their own did not end up so well. This is for every one who thinks that...

Let me get to myself first, so I can get to you

They say you only live once, so live and love as much as you can. But then, they never said what happens when you heart gets broken, your mind addled and your soul wandering aimlessly. Nobody gives out a survival kit for when that “my-world...

Singleness is Not a Disease!

I’ve been browsing my Facebook profile this morning and I saw a post about singleness being a disability. You probably saw one in your social media too. Somebody somewhere is posting about him/her being single and they feel miserable about ...

Dear, Honorable Woman

Max Lucado once said, “A woman’s heart should be so hidden in God that a man has to seek Him just to find her.” Your job is to hide your heart in the Lord by delighting in Him and treasuring Him above all else. Let the man finds and pursues...

When yearning lingers…

  The desire to have a romantic relationship will eventually come to you, whether you like it or not, it will visit you. And sometimes it can be painful as it can be. The yearning to have a companion in life is tough. I've learned th...

15 THINGS TO REMEMBER

  1.   that thing you did that was kind of embarrassing and weird, everyone else forgot about that already 2.   you look fine today, if you can’t notice something on your face standing 6 feet from a mirror then nobody...

Single in her late 20’s

This is a funny thing to write , really. It's quite not cute to write about your singleness is it? But i think I have enough good reason to blog about this season I'm currently at. And I hope this speaks plenty to the many still singles...

7 Years Of Being Single And Counting!

People are asking on how I stayed single for 7 years. Yes! 7 years, some can’t just believe it and I don’t understand why. But trust me, it was definitely a ride. For the first few years, I was so scared. I built a wall that I didn’t even l...

Dear Woman, Rise up

  This world will throw you different kind of struggles. I know, it's never easy. Most of the time you let yourself succumb to all the heartbreaks, pain, struggles that this world may offer.  It's alright to let all your pain eats you...

I left before you leave

May mga ganun talaga sigurong tao, na mauunang mang iwan kaysa sila ang iwan mo. Takot kami. Wala Kang magagawa dun. Ang tangi mo magagawa ay tanggapin na iniwan ka or ipagpaban kami na wag kang Iwan. Simple Lang Ang kailangan. Yun...

An Open Letter to My Soon-to-be

Hi. What are you doing? Have you eaten? Are you busy? Couldn't keep my mind not to think about you. I'm wondering where you are right now. Are you in a relationship with somebody now? Or are you also in touch with your covenant with the Lo...

ENJOY YOUR SINGLEHOOD

We should rest comfortably knowing that God wants to give us a spouse. It is God who invented marriage and it is God who said: "It's not good for man to be alone." (Genesis 2:18) But God brought the help meet forth when God decided it was t...