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I want to be your permanent one.

I’m already done chasing the kind of love that demands my full attention, time, and heart. That kind of love is exhausting and draining. I don’t want that. I want the kind of love that allows me to continue to wander, grow, and build myself. The kind of love that Continue Reading

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sayang, ako sana

sabi nila, pumasok sa opisina para mag trabaho, hindi mainlove sa ka-trabaho. pero, binasag ko yung kasabihan na yan. Na inlove ako sa ka trabaho ko na halos, lahat ng tao sa opisina alam na Ako nalang ang hindi pa umaamin…. To cut the long story short…….. HINDI NAGING KAMI Continue Reading

Categories Relationships

Choose Him

Choose him. Choose him who does not choose you first. Choose him who chooses Jesus over you. If your man loves God before you, choose him. Do not get upset when he has little time for you, if his goal is to glorify Jesus. Choose him. When praying for a Continue Reading

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We Are Worth It.

My heart has been broken a couple of times; some are small cuts and bruises, others are wounds that left some scars.  Yet somehow, I still have a lot of love to pour. It’s hard being a writer. It’s ironic not being able to grasp the right words to convey Continue Reading

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Signs of Pure Intentions

The Problem In the journey of building and looking for the right relationships, it’s easy to get swept away by surface-level attractions: a charming smile, a pleasant scent, or an impressive effort. But these initial sparks can be misleading, especially when we’re not sure about the other person’s intentions. Often, Continue Reading

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I Miss the Feeling of Being In love

There’s something truly magical about love. Like it gives your heart that warmth, that heavy deep feeling from your chest that makes it almost hard to breathe. But it’s beautiful. And it’s pure. That even it makes you cry for some nights, it makes you question your worth at times, Continue Reading

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Sorry, Sorry kasi….

Sorry kasi ito lang ako.. I’m in the LDR relationship rn for almost 3 years, lahat ng bagay iniintindi ko, time frame namin sa isa’t isa, madalas good morning good night na nga lang kung mag usap kami, update ng konti on how’s our day went. He doesn’t send pictures Continue Reading

Categories Confessions

Hoping But Not Expecting

About two years ago, I made a conscious decision to close my heart to romance. The countless rejections and heartbreaks I had experienced in the past had turned my once soft and marupok heart into something akin to a block of ice. I became numb and incapable of feeling love Continue Reading

Categories Move On

Let Them Lose You

Let them go. Let them lose the very person that you are. Let them lose you. Let them miss out on someone as amazing as you. Let them miss out on everything that you have to offer. Let them miss out on the beautiful things that could’ve transpired between you Continue Reading

Categories Waiting

The solitude wall

I would always wonder if you exist?Something in my mind that I cant resistI’m satisfied to be in my seasonYet my heart beats for a bigger vision In this single journey that I’m inBeen learning to survive- walking or kicking!Maximizing my time to serve our one true kingThe glory we Continue Reading

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A Love That Is Yet To Unfold

This is for the girl whom I cherish, adore, treasure, value, keep, and deeply, sincerely, genuinely, and truly love. I wanted you to know that you really mean so much to me. The way you move, the way you talk, the way you walk, the way you think, the way Continue Reading

Categories Single

Waiting Season is a Growth Season

In the realm of relationships, the period of waiting is an invaluable season of growth, a time to cultivate oneself rather than passively bide time. Embracing the discomfort of discipline, whether in personal development, career advancement, or spiritual growth, prepares one for the complexities of a relationship. It’s about cultivating Continue Reading

Categories Short Story

SARDINAS

Some of you who follow me, befriend me or unfriend me know the different struggles that I constantly battling with, either in my head or through my physique. Some days I feel like I have to stay in bed, laying down for quite long hours, or just ignore people in Continue Reading

Categories Poetry

Mahal – supposedly My Future

Mahal nasan ka na? Nasaan na ang pagmamahal mong dati’y sa akin lang inaalay Nasaan na ang attensyon at oras mo? Bakit parang ika’y unti unti ng nagbabago. Nasaan na ang iyong mga pangako? Lahat na ba’y napako? Akala ko pag ibig mo’y totoo Un pala isa kang lalaking mapaglaro Continue Reading

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Loved you with no regrets

“Did you ever regret loving me ?” – Says he, out of nowhere.  At that moment, I was caught off guard. I didn’t know what to say. I spaced out. I was there standing in front of him yet my mind was wandering elsewhere. It was the same question I Continue Reading

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To The Right Woman For Me

If by any chance that the right time for us will come one of these days, I won’t mind seeing you far from the best that you could be. I will take care of you, even if you’re a mess. When you get tired of doing your hair, drawing your Continue Reading

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From Marupok to Marunong

Naging marupok ka nanaman ba? Nadala sa mga pambobola nya pero nauwi lang sa wala? Naniwala sa mga kasabihang? “It’s better to have loved and lost than have not loved at all”? Pero teka muna sandali, love ba talaga or fear of loneliness lang ang pinairal mo? Ayayay, chisbumbay!  Mag Continue Reading

Categories Waiting

If there’s a woman meant for me

Huling bukas na liham ng pagsinta—isinulat para sa taong inilaan Niya. If there’s a woman meant for me, I appreciate how this letter finds you beautifully in the purest way. It’s been years of praying to meet you—or at least have a glimpse of how our souls genuinely recognize each Continue Reading

Categories Poetry

I Like You, Maybe?

Thinking about yesterday how you were with me I was wondering if that was how you really treat everybody Or is there something special on how you were with me I don’t really know what to feel Should I be happy, excited or scared I was so certain bout how Continue Reading

Categories Move On

Became a Mistress without me knowing

2 yrs ago, I met this guy whom I thought was the one. You know, you meet them and somehow everything clicks. We dated for about a year, until I found out na he has a LIP na in the province for 5yrs. He suddenly ghosted me, and upon contacting Continue Reading

Categories Relationships

Love: a dream

Most often than not, people search for “love.” And that’s not a bad thing. But do I really know love? When I was young, I started watching some wedding videos and keep wedding songs. And I still do ’til this day. These videos made me wonder “will I ever get Continue Reading

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7 Signs Na Infatuated Ka

Paano mo masasabing infatuated ka vs in-love ka? Baka naman kasi nag-fluctuate lang yung dopamine mo. It’s important to remember to have an anchor. Your perception of God might be undervalued, and in this undervaluation, the throne of your heart might be occupied by something or someone incapable of fulfilling Continue Reading

Categories Confessions

My Last Letter To You

I’ve never thought I’ve met you again after so many years. It was just a wishful thinking but God took it seriously. And I’ve never thought I’ll still love you this much despite the years that gone by. We never had a history. We are merely acquaintance if I can Continue Reading

Categories Move On

2023’s Favorite Lesson

To my favorite lesson this year, thank you for teaching me how to value and love myself more. Thank you for making me realize that I deserve better and that I shouldn’t let myself settle for less. Thank you for the good memories that made me genuinely happy. But most Continue Reading

Categories Adulting

Embracing a Love-driven Life

In the intricate tapestry of life, the question of how we navigate our existence often leads us to seek purpose and inspiration. As a young adult on a journey of exploration and discovery, I’ve encountered numerous pieces of advice emphasizing the significance of a purpose-driven life. The idea is to Continue Reading