Life Realizations of a Struggling Millennial

I want to share some of the things I learned during this year. I must say that I’ve matured a lot and I’m proud of the person I have become. It’s not an easy process, I’ve been through a lot and I felt like I don’t know what my purpose is a...

This Is In Behalf Of Those Who Are Left Behind

People will always leave, but it does not mean it is your fault. People leave for what they think is for the better. They leave for what they think is the next best thing, they leave for what they feel is so much better. They leave becau...

Bloom while waiting!

Dear Human, Stay single until you meet a person who is sure of you and never makes you doubt how he/she feels. The one who is certain of you and his/her career and a future he/she wants you a part of. Stay single until you find so...

Stop Waiting

Stop waiting for weekends, for summer, for someone to fall in love with you. Stop waiting for countless midnights and late nights, stop waiting for those unreturned calls and no reply messages, stop waiting for minutes, hours, days or even...

When Maybe’s Are All You Need

Maybe it is about not ending up with the person your heart chooses. Maybe that’s how life works. Maybe you end up not getting what you want.   Maybe love changes overtime. It changes in the ways we never realize. It changes in ...

Wag All Out! Set Boundaries!

Boundaries Another important aspect of a relationship is to respect each other’s personal boundaries. A boundary is a property line that defines where you end, and someone else begins. Good relationships have a high degree of respect for e...

This happens when you know your worth

The world has its view on things. Beauty is defined as those having the curves at the right places, pointed nose, poreless face, flawless and porcelain white skin, tall, feminine, stylish... and the list goes on. We try to fit in into th...

Para sa Lalaking Nagsabi sa Akin ng Hindi

Para sa'yo na nagsabi sa akin ng hindi, Gusto ko lang sabihin na salamat sa'yo, Salamat sa'yo dahil sa paghindi mo, Mas nakilala ko lalo ang sarili ko. Inakala ko noon pareho ating damdamin, Iyon pala ay ako lang ang umatim, Akala ko n...

Note to my 28 year old self

Hi, You are aging gracefully dearest. Know that you are loved and you deserve all the love in the world. You do not need to worry about the future because that's for tomorrow, you have to live and enjoy life today and that's how it shoul...

Your Existence Made My World Once A Better Place

It was years ago. Thousands of days had passed. We are now living different lives, we learn life lessons in a hard and beautiful way, we are now living completely in a diverse world of complexity, we met a lot of new people and we made new ...

Might-Have-Been

Dear You, “Of all sad words of tongue or pen,the saddest are, ‘It might have been.”– John Greenleaf Whittier ” It might have been a good year if only I did something.”” It might have been a successful relationship if only we did ...

What Time Does Not Heal, You Have To Heal It Yourself

As they say, time heals all wounds. But in reality, we mistake time as the ultimate healer of our pain, deepest cuts, damages, and bruises. We depend on time telling ourselves we'll get better one day and live in the hope of it. Yes, ...

Friends Don’t Look, Touch and Hear Like This

It was when the universe is half asleep but our conversation sways from our childhood memories and dreams, from how sloppy and messy we looked like way back on our senior years to how our looks changed now that we are working in a corporate...

To You Who Took the Risk

Dear You, I wonder how it happened. But it started somewhere. Everything starts at somewhere... Somewhere between my mind and my heart, I found something wonderful. Something that made me believe again. Somewhere along the a...

But What If This Time It All Comes Back Together?

And from that certain moment, after long years of living on your own universe, set of walls and boundaries, for once... you feel afraid. You feel that you're afraid when your eyes started to stare his. You cannot understand it for the first...

To the Man who was Unsure II

Dear You, I've learned a lot from what we had yesterday. You taught me grace. You taught me love. You taught me patience. You taught me hope. I've been growing because of what we had yesterday. And because of you leaving, I foun...

Dear “Delayed” Person

Dear “Delayed” Person, We sometimes validate ourselves through the timeline of this world: graduate by 20, find a job after graduation, full independence by 25, get married before 30 that whenever we are “out of track”, “stuck”, “missed”...

Waiting: What’s in it and what comes with it?

  How should someone patiently wait in line? Waiting is not an easy journey. Same with life; it has its ups and downs. You have to prepare in so many ways on how do you make sure to get in the finish line as first place with gol...

Dear You

I know I can be too tough sometimes.I know I'm too much to handle at times.I know I can also be too weak most of the times. But will you be there during those times? Will you? I understand that you've got your own life and dreams. I'd b...

Baka Sa Paghihintay ko, naantala ang pagdating ng taong nakalaan para sayo :)

I said goodbye to you today and it hurts. Masakit isipin na nung sinabi ko na iiwan kita, inisip mo na mas mapapabuti ako kung wala ka. Sa mga kadahilanang hindi ka pa handa, wala kang tiwala  sa sarili mo at wala kang plano sa buhay m...

In God’s time.

I was shattered by past heartbreaks. It caused me to become uncertain about love and believed that happy endings only happen in fairytales. I intended to build the highest walls that no man can ever break nor climb. I enclosed myself in my ...

Of Self-love and worth

Like everyone else, you are living in a world full of standards for beauty, intelligence, career and relationships. We face the bars set by the society towards skin color, body shapes, grades at school, work experience and so much more. Nat...

Move to, HINDI Move on.

Dear You, Tayo'y masaya at nananahimik. Paglipas ng panahon, ako'y sayo't ika'y akin. Ngunit bakit nawala sa ihip ng hangin? Anong nangyari sa atin? Sabi mo kailangan mo ng pahinga. Sabi mo kailangan mo ng space. Sabi mo kailang...

Letter to YOU

You, I can’t help but write. It’s starting again. All over again and I can’t help it. I am terrified. The sudden rush in adrenaline and the speed in every beat of my heart are once again relived. I thought it died so I buried it somewhe...

When Life Seems Lost

I wish I can still understand the ways of life. Sometimes there are days that seems it's hard to breathe and you cannot fathom the nothingness of emotions that's circling around your bones. There are times as if you are blindly confined ins...

Here’s To All The Things I’d Like To Thank For 2018

I’d like to thank time. Through you, I knew what waiting should be like; I knew what living and cherishing the moment means. Thank you for giving hours, minutes, and seconds for me to understand that some things are not yet too late on tryi...

A Letter from my 23-Year Old Self

Dear Self, First of all, I want to give you a tap on your shoulder for finishing another year. Looking back, those 365 days were never easy, but you made it! It tested your strength, your loyalty, your patience and most especially, your Fa...

Some things are never meant to be

Life is uncertain yet what makes it constant is change. It varies with seasons, modifies through time and moves like a wheel. Paradoxical in nature but we are to live with it. As if we have a choice, right? We encounter people come and g...

It’s Okay If You Won’t End Up With Your First Love

“First love never dies.” That is what they say. Well, it’s cute and sweet – ending up with your first love. But what if things don’t work out? How would you feel about this?   When we were young, some of us hoped that the first perso...

How to Stay Emotionally Healthy Even in Social Distancing or Isolation

Coronavirus, or COVID-19, has quickly changed the way we do life all over the world. As we are prevented from carrying out our normal life rhythms — such as going to work, meeting with people in cafes and restaurants, and going to the gy...