Kapag strong and independent usually ang ideas ng ibang tao: -career and goal-oriented -hardworker -achiever -financially stable etc. Kaya minsan may stigma na, “ang hirap mahalin niyan” , “mataas masyado standards, wag na lang” , “ang talino mo” , “hindi ko kaya ibigay mga gusto niya” at marami pang iba. Continue Reading
Relationships
Strong and independent pero…
To my Future Better Half
To the man I’ll love, To the man whom i going to spend my whole life with, To you my person Hello my future dude! Before i start this letter, can this letter get a smile from you? alright that’s my man. Thank you! How are you? Are you doing well? Continue Reading
toxicity
iniwan mo ung ex mong toxic.. napunta ka sa jowa mong mas toxic. eto ba purpose ko in life tapunan ng toxic waste,, may gahd mother earth idisolve mo sila..
Wrong Table
As I sit by the table pondering, I just realized something. If a man really wants to pursue your heart, he would go to the ends of the world just to get to you. I mean, I was asked by someone what he could do to earn my forgiveness, I Continue Reading
Kalayaan
Pagpupugay sa mga tunay na malaya; alam mo ang iyong tunay na halaga. Pagpupugay sa mga pinalaya; iyong dibdib ay makakahinga na ng maluwang. Pagupugay sa mga magpapalaya; kanilang mga kamay ay maari mo ng bitawan. Pagpupugay sa mga susubukang lumaya; ito ang unang hakbang. Pagpupugay Continue Reading
To the one who always leave
I couldn’t count how many times you let go of me. Every single fight.. every little mistake that I make. I feel so drained.. I can’t utter any more word for I have said a lot.. I can’t fight for you anymore for I have done so much just to Continue Reading
My Learnings in the Season of Waiting
Wait for the right time, I know this may sound cliche and difficult at the same time. But, trust me when I say, waiting reveals what true love is. Love is patient, this may sound cliche too. But it’s true and I will share to you my learnings while waiting. Continue Reading
LIGAW ANG SALITANG –NILIMOT
LIGAW ANG ANG SALITANG NILIMOT LIGAW SALITANG BINUBULASLAS NG MGA KALALAKIHAN SA NAGUGUSTUHANKATAGANG MAY MABIGAT NA KAHULUGAN, LUBOS NA MALALIMSA KALALIMAN AY WALANG SUMUBOK TUMANGKILIK NG LUBUSAN O LIGAW, WALA KA NA BA SA PANAHON?SA MODERNONG PANAHON, PANAHONG NAPAKABILIS NG MGA PANGYAYARIO LIGAW, TULUYAN KA NA NGA BANG LUMISAN? UBOS Continue Reading
Patak ng Ulan!
Ulan ang naging saksi, Sa aking kahilingan, Dasal ko sa Maykapal, Na ngayon ko lang naunawaan. Bigla nangilid ang luha, Kahilingang kay tagal, Sa puso ko ay pinakatago, Na ang katuparan ay ikaw! Na ang dating lungkot, Na dala ng bawat patak ng ulan, Binigyan mo ng ngiting, Continue Reading
Sana Dumating Ka Na
Heto ako, nalilito May mga tanong na nais malaman Ngunit, hanggang ngayon wala pa ring sagot Tingnan man kita sa iyong mga mata Ang mga bakit, paano, kailan, saan, at sino ay Mananatiling tanong pa rin sa akin Heto nanaman ako, hindi mapakali Hindi rin alam ang gagawin Pilit nilalabanan Continue Reading
PUHON
Maghintay, madaling sambitin ngunit mahirap gawin Gusto mo siya at sa tingin mo’y gusto ka din niya Hindi ibig sabihin, kayo na ay para sa isat’isa Oo may pag-asa, pero ito’y hindi pa tama Bago umamin, hindi sapat ang dahilang ika’y may pagtingin Maghintay ka muna at manalangin Tanungin ang Continue Reading
Ikinukuwento Kita Sa Lord
“Pinag-pre-pray kita…” “Kasama sa prayers ko…” “Ikinukuwento kita sa Lord…” When someone told you that she is praying for you, she means you are so valuable to her. She don’t want you to love her in return, but she prays for your best — na maging okay ka, na nasa Continue Reading
PAANO SIMULAN ANG ISANG BAGAY NA MALABO ANG KATAPUSAN?
Paano ba sisimulan? Saan ba magsisimula? Yung taong lagi mong kausap sa sampung taon, biglang mawawala. Yung taong una mong binabati ng good morning at unang tatawagan, hindi na ikaw ang kinakausap. Gaano kahirap kimkimin ang mga tanong sa puso mo? Nagkakausap kaya sila tuwing umaga? Nagpapalitan na agad sila Continue Reading
Why We Keep Our Hearts Open
What broke us maybe different and unique from each other, but the fact is, we are all capable of breaking. Some get their heart broken because of failed relationships. Because they love much but never loved back. Some can’t just let go of that string of hope loosely tied around Continue Reading
Telling what I truly Feel (Maybe too Early)
Man!! It was a bit unsettling. Alam mo bakit? Kasi ngayon ko lang ginagawang umamin ng feelings ko towards someone. I felt brave and woah I never expected it to go well. SO BEFORE THAT I NEED TO TAKE YOU BACK, usually we don’t say to someone na we like Continue Reading
Thank You, Lord, You saved me.
Why am I too insecure? What happened that I felt this way? How will I be able to overcome this? I have a lot of issues in life, will somebody still love me? These were just some of the questions I often asked myself before. Maybe because there were numerous Continue Reading
My First & Last Letter To You
Nikko, I hope u have time to read this. Alam kong mahaba pero pls basahin mo hanggang dulo. Please play the song BAWAT PIYESA by MUNIMUNI. That’s my song for u. I dunno how start basta nandun na lang ako sa point ng buhay ko na nawalan na ako ng Continue Reading
Rose and Romeo
These days, Some guys and gals out there are so eager to find the love of their life because they feel left out. They feel pressured, They feel alone, but you know what? You don’t have to be. You don’t have to force or open your door just because you Continue Reading
REALIZATIONS after our SEPARATION
It was too quick. It’s my fault. I forced you, I pressured you, I used you. I was hurting and I treated you like a band-aid to cover the wounds the previous one gave me. We skipped the friendship phase. We didn’t have enough time to be friends, I immediately Continue Reading
Today, I’m Choosing To Let Go
Letting go is one of the hardest things for me to do. I’m the kind of person who will choose to hold to things and invest my all in them. Investing time, effort, and even emotions are all my thing. But I came to a point in my life where Continue Reading
Fragile Mindset
I just want to be someone who gives comfort, but becomes misunderstood of being interested I just want to tell them how special they are, without a hint of malice or doubt I just want to become a listener for them to feel, that there is someone who’ll listen, Continue Reading
Opposites Did Attract
You’ve always loved the morning dawns…. but I am a bigger fan of sunsets’ differing hues. You like your Milktea with those extra chewy pearls while I always order a cup of cold brew Americano. You are fond of counting the sparkly stars, of pointing the Orion and the Big Continue Reading
LIFE IS A NEVER ENDING LESSON
Life is a never ending lesson. Marami talagang tinuturo satin ang araw araw nating pagkabuhay sa mundo WE are learning every single second, minute, hour of our lives. Ito ay dahil gusto ni God matuto tayo Matuto tayo sa mga pagkakamali natin at sa mga ginawa rin nating tama dito Continue Reading
10 Things I Learned When I was Healing
During the season that we are hurting, we tend to forget that we also need to heal. We need to have our hearts mended by the One who can do the work. I also experienced what it feels like to be hurt and be in pain, so now I am Continue Reading
My Worth is Found in You
I came to a point when I do not know my worth. I thought I lost it. I lost it because I was hurt, neglected, and betrayed. I lost it because I allowed it to be lost. During those times, I was really broken. I felt like I was shattered Continue Reading
Primero y último
Sa ‘yo ako unang naligaw at nanatili. Namalagi at nagtagal. Nanahan at nagpatuloy. Nanindigan at kumapit. Umibig at nangako. At sa kabuuan ng aking pagsugal— sa ‘yo rin ako unang bumitaw at sumuko. Mga salita ni Kenneth B. Ofima Larawan: Eddniel Patrick Ilagan Papa
True Happiness Comes from Within
True happiness comes from accepting life from what it is not what you expected it to be. The journey that determines your self-defense is the journey of self-discovery. Time is everything. There is no right time. It is only misopportunity. It’s time for reawakening. Coz the journey of inaction waiting Continue Reading
Finally, you committed.
To the one who left and still takes my heart, I met you almost three years ago in school, and we were classmates. We both came from a toxic/cheated-on relationship and met each other’s path. I admire you for being nice and smart, ikaw yung lalaking may pangarap sa buhay, Continue Reading
Pag ASA-ness?
Tanga nga ba akong maituturing? Kung ang nais ko lang naman ay muli kang maging akin? Habang ako’y abalang mangarap na matawag na muli’y akin ka, ikaw namang abalang matawag ng pagmamay ari na ng iba. Abalang pasayahin siya. Abalang alalahanin kung nasaan siya. Alamin ang mga bagay na magpapasaya Continue Reading
Sourname
Catacutan ka pa rin? Tanong mo saakin. Isang tanong na nag reresound saakin hanggang alas dose ng madaling araw. Inabot ng kinabukasan. Dumating sa puntong napa search ako sa Annulment Assistance ng biglaan. Na Gaslight nanaman. Pakiramdam na lagi kong pinagdadaanan. Napaisip ng biglaan, deserve ko nga ba yan? Kahit Continue Reading