Category: Single

What’s your status? Are you single? How’s your single life? how’s your season? This is the usual question we got from anyone who do not know about us. Sometimes in the family reunion, you will encounter a question, “bakit wala ka pang asawa??”, “kailan ka mag-aasawa??” or sometimes like this, “wala ka na balak mag-asawa??”.… Continue reading Singlehood – More Than Just A Status

LONG POST AHEAD. Magsasalita na ko para sa mga atat na magkajowa na ko. 😂 Hope to inspire others as well. People keep on asking me “BA’T WALA KA PARING BF?” It’s actually my choice to stay single for 7 years & they can’t just believe it. But trust me, it was definitely a ride.… Continue reading Alone but not lonely

If I will be given a chance to fall in love for the first time again, I will surely take that chance to fall in love with myself first. I will learn how to look in mirror without judging or hating the person that I see in front of me. I will stare at the… Continue reading IF I COULD LOVE FOR THE FIRST TIME AGAIN

Turning 30, but still no boyfriend since birth. Nakakadiri ba ang pagiging single hahaha, Im just asking myself all the time bakit nga ba single parin ako eh mag trenta nako. ganun ba ako kapanget. minsan nakakasawa din ang maging single minsan nakakadepress kakaisip bakit ba wala akong jowa, wala manlang mayaya manuod ng cine,… Continue reading SINGLE BUT HAPPY

Hello! Oo tama NBSB ako pero always broken. Paano nangyari? Well, I just want to describe myself first then tell me if you will believe in me. 21 years old. College graduate (Accounting Technology) at PLV. Maganda sabi nila pero cute lang talaga feeling ko haha. 5’3 height, chubby but sexy hmmm sabi din nila.… Continue reading NBSBBtAlwysBrkn

Have you ever tried to list down all the different dating advices you’ve heard? or how about searching in google on “what to do while waiting?” Being a girl is so weird. We are basically programmed to be in love in the concept of love. There is nothing wrong with love. Love is awesome! Love… Continue reading That thing called “waiting”

For so many years that I’ve been a Christian and spending time and ministering to some single men for years, and observing some of my friends who are single, most of them thought that singleness is a sickness. Whether be it a single man or women, countless of them hoping they are in a relationship… Continue reading Singles, Maximize Your Season

I was so down, heavily depressed, and downright mad at the whole world one Sunday morning when I woke up with a heavy headache around 11 am.  I’m one of the youth leaders in my local church, It’s such a provoking thought to not be included in one of the most anticipated meetings. I have… Continue reading It ‘HIT’ me

“Singleness is not a sickness” yan yung natutunan ko. Kung baga Blessed Singleness sabi nila. Oo, Single ako at matagal ng single sampung taon na mula ng first breakup ko sa una naging boyfriend ko. At after wala na ako naging boyfriend. Tapos meron ako minahal after ng walong taon na single mula sa first… Continue reading Single. Mag isa. Pero Hindi Malungkot

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Are you tired of being betrayed? Left hanging? Or that girl na laging “pinapaasa”? And you be like, bakit nya kaya nagawa sakin yun? Pangit ba ko? Pangit ba ang katawan ko? Kapalit-palit ba ko? THEN WHY!? (Just kidding. Just tryin’ to be Liza Soberano.) If you’ve been in this situation OH GIRL! let me… Continue reading What makes you beautiful

Have you ever thought of living in a fairytale? You being Cinderella, Aurora or Snow White. Well, I do. Ever since I was a child I’ve always  dreamt of having a prince saving me from my distress. I love watching those princesses meeting their true love and living happily ever after. I’m so fascinated with… Continue reading My not so charming prince and I

Kung iniisip mong maeencourage ka sa mababasa mo, next blog na lang unahin mo.   Sa totoo lang wala namang deadline ang pagkakaron ng karelasyon. Pero with all honesty, gusto natin yung may makakausap at makakaintindi satin. Kaso wala! May mga dumarating pero hindi mo gusto. Gusto mo, gusto ka pero complicated. May gusto ka,… Continue reading 27 years old, never had a boy friend

Things A Woman Should Not Say Unless you want to be judged. ********* You woke up with a sound of clock ticking. Tick tock. Tick tock. Tick tock. You tried to ignore it. Yet the more you tried not to think about it, it keeps on ringing in your head. Loudly. Like a heavy metal… Continue reading Things A Woman Should Not Say

“They: SINGLE ka pa rin mag2- 2019 na ha? Me: May quota ba?” Well for sure, madami sa atin ang may mga ganitong mga bagay sa isip natin, na  gusto nating sabihin sa mga nag sasabi na “mag 2-2019 na.. baka single ka padin?”.  Hindi maalis sa mga single na mainis o kaya matawa na… Continue reading They :SINGLE ka pa rin? Me: Bakit may quota ba?

Before you roll your eyes after reading the title, I’d like to set proper expectations; I’m not being conceited. Yes, I mean it. I am beautiful. So are you. Beauty. Let’s admit it. Most of the time, our basis of beauty doesn’t go beyond flesh. I know you’d say, “Not me. I know beauty is… Continue reading I Am Beautiful

Sometimes we wonder if there’s someone out there. Someone who will welcome our hearts without pain, without doubt, without questions and second thoughts. Someone who will finally tell us “You are my home”. Someday, our hearts will find its sanctuary and we will no longer wonder why we felt so empty. Coz someday, the answers… Continue reading You Will Find Your Home Someday

“You’re too picky.” “Your standards are too high.” “Why don’t you try dating for experience?” I always hear those phrases from people who knew about my ‘relationship status’, some, from my friends. One time, I talked to a group of young girls about school and I was surprised because they were really surprised when I… Continue reading No Boyfriend Since Birth?

We had it all wrong all along. I don’t know about you but do you ever hear people or read some statuses about your friends groaning on social media because they don’t have a girlfriend or boyfriend to spend this Christmas with? I am sure you do! Majority of us will spend an hour or… Continue reading December Singleness—So, What?

SinglenessIsNotASickness KNOW YOUR PURPOSE – Being single is part of God’s ultimate plan in your life. Allow God to mold you in his likeness and discover where God called you in this life. Believe me you are in this season for a reason. Worship me with all your heart, and I will be with you… Continue reading Things To While You are Still Single

  People think that I have been single for so long. For a time, I have believed in this too. But years went by and I started to realize that I am not really single. Truth is, I am having an affair with myself. I smile when I get asked by people why am I… Continue reading I am having an affair with myself

I thought it’s the best thing that I never had. This is for every one who thinks that their life is already done when every thing they had in mind and planned for their own did not end up so well. This is for every one who thinks that they already gave their all but… Continue reading You Thought It’s The BEST THING That You Never Had

They say you only live once, so live and love as much as you can. But then, they never said what happens when you heart gets broken, your mind addled and your soul wandering aimlessly. Nobody gives out a survival kit for when that “my-world-is-crashing-down” bit would happen. There might be clues on how it… Continue reading Let me get to myself first, so I can get to you

I’ve been browsing my Facebook profile this morning and I saw a post about singleness being a disability. You probably saw one in your social media too. Somebody somewhere is posting about him/her being single and they feel miserable about it. Well, I think, in my own opinion, being single if you are old enough… Continue reading Singleness is Not a Disease!

Max Lucado once said, “A woman’s heart should be so hidden in God that a man has to seek Him just to find her.” Your job is to hide your heart in the Lord by delighting in Him and treasuring Him above all else. Let the man finds and pursues you through following Christ and… Continue reading Dear, Honorable Woman