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Being at Peace with Being Single

Back in 2022, someone messaged me on Messenger and asked for advice. She is an NBSB (No Boyfriend Since Birth), turning 28 and still has no boyfriend. She said she feels a lot of pressure because she’s turning 28, and everyone around her either has a boyfriend or is already Continue Reading

Categories Relationships

Choose Him

Choose him. Choose him who does not choose you first. Choose him who chooses Jesus over you. If your man loves God before you, choose him. Do not get upset when he has little time for you, if his goal is to glorify Jesus. Choose him. When praying for a Continue Reading

Categories Relationships

We Are Worth It.

My heart has been broken a couple of times; some are small cuts and bruises, others are wounds that left some scars.  Yet somehow, I still have a lot of love to pour. It’s hard being a writer. It’s ironic not being able to grasp the right words to convey Continue Reading

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A Love That Is Yet To Unfold

This is for the girl whom I cherish, adore, treasure, value, keep, and deeply, sincerely, genuinely, and truly love. I wanted you to know that you really mean so much to me. The way you move, the way you talk, the way you walk, the way you think, the way Continue Reading

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The Fruit of Becoming

Isaiah 55:11 NLT ”It is the same with my word. I send it out, and it always produces fruit. It will accomplish all I want it to, and it will prosper everywhere I send it.” When God gives a Word, you just have to obey, no questions ask. Even if Continue Reading

Categories Relationships

Love: a dream

Most often than not, people search for “love.” And that’s not a bad thing. But do I really know love? When I was young, I started watching some wedding videos and keep wedding songs. And I still do ’til this day. These videos made me wonder “will I ever get Continue Reading

Categories Adulting

Embracing a Love-driven Life

In the intricate tapestry of life, the question of how we navigate our existence often leads us to seek purpose and inspiration. As a young adult on a journey of exploration and discovery, I’ve encountered numerous pieces of advice emphasizing the significance of a purpose-driven life. The idea is to Continue Reading

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Wanting What God Wants

We choose our friends wisely. The reality is, not all our friends will stay with us forever. We are choosing friends who will be with us with the same God, same vision, same principles, and same purpose in life. If we choose our friends wisely, then we should be more Continue Reading

Categories Contribution

Dear Woman in Her 30s and Waiting

Dear woman in her 30s and wondering where is Mr. Right—if you’ve met him or not yet, or if you need to be forward about it—hold it right there! STOP worrying and START refocusing on things, people, and situations that matter most (like the NOW). To be in your 30s Continue Reading

Categories Faith

We’re all Travelers

Life is not easy, it’s like forcefully driving on the road… It isn’t as easy as cooking an instant food or one press away message. There must be a sense of eagerness, determination, patience, discernment and faith to keep ourselves on the right lane. Road of life is quite long Continue Reading

Categories Adulting

Question From Our Frustration

(PART TWO) First, I was an introvert a long time ago, before I knew what it was called. I remember my senior years, when I preferred to watch my classmates ruin the classroom’s blackboard (well its green thou) with their stupid thing they called artwork. I’m just listening to the Continue Reading

Categories Waiting

I Feel Like I’m ready…But Am I?

God, I feel like I’m ready… but am I? You see everything and I know you have the perfect. man for me at the right time. As days go by, id always think now amazing my future partner will be knowing that it was given by you. If I am Continue Reading

Categories Single

Save the Best to Last

Ever wondered if what would your future be like with the man of your dream? Or maybe the question is, have you ever dreamed of it? For some people, that dream had gone out of the window a long time ago, while others are still dreamy over a fairytale-like, prince Continue Reading

Categories Waiting

Unshackled

One of the biggest irony that we encountered a lot is the phrase” the simplest thing to say is the hardest thing to do” and that really encapsulates the whole dilemma we always encounter “MOVING FORWARD and LETTING GO OF THE PAST”. It’s hard to fathom and to say that Continue Reading

Categories Relationships

TO DOUBLE-MINDED PEEPS

Should I stop or should I still continue? Should I start or should I just let it be? Should I dare to try or don’t give it a chance? We are double-minded beings. We have so many uncertainties to face and most of the time we do not know what Continue Reading

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Don’t despise our now moments

The truth is even myself  doesn’t want to stay here but no matter how overwhelming or mundane may it be, let’s not despise our now moments. Every phase will always be a preparation for the next moments and every moment we experience is a step forward to the completion of Continue Reading

Categories Faith

Dear Self

“You made it up to this day and I am proud of you, you are still walking and choosing the love that God gave you. You finally found joy and peace in God’s presence, that unexplainable joy that will always be with you that confidence, that laugh, and that smile. Continue Reading

Categories Poetry

Sa Kabila ng Bakit

Hinanap, natagpuan.Nagkakilala, nagkapalagayan.Masaya sa una. Sa una lang pala.Bakit unti-unting naglaho ang nakasanayan na?Bakit palagi na lang nauudlot ang nasimulan na?Bakit pinili nilang mawala ngunit biglang bumabalik?Bakit sa huli na nila napagtanto kung kailan may nasaktan na?Bakit hindi maipagpatuloy ang nasimulan?Bakit naging duwag ang sa una’y matapang? Hindi na kita Continue Reading

Categories Faith

When it feels like Nothing…

Oo, nothing talaga. I don’t think there is something that I can think about as to what or how my day is without an anchor. It needs a basis. A point of perception. Life is full of everything that it need specification to derive of something. So, if I ask Continue Reading

Categories Relationships

For Ben.

I wish God made more “you” so I can have one. It’s not that I am in a rush for love.I know Patience and LoveAnd how they agreed to meet at the same time and place.But drift aimlessly aroundBecause Patience lost it.Then Love tapped, and said“Stop looking for me.”“I will Continue Reading

Categories Faith

Heart Check

Life is fleeting, you never know what tomorrow holds. We’re all passersby in this world and life is not all about us. The reason why we’re here is to live for the ONE who made all of this together.

Categories Move On

Finding beauty in the broken hearts

God uses broken things. It takes broken soil to produce a crop, broken clouds to give rain, broken grain to give bread, and broken bread to give strength. – Vance Havner

Categories Poetry

Next time, I’ll be careful

“I like you and I want to pursue you”, those were your exact words 5 years ago. I can still remember how courageous you were in sharing your experience of how God spoke to you in the most intimate way telling you that I am the woman He had prepared Continue Reading

Categories Waiting

Dear future someone,

Dear future someone, How are you? I hope everything is going well for you. If not, please take your time to rest. It’s okay to be busy, but don’t forget to connect with God regardless of your circumstances. I know it’s difficult to face adulthood, but I hope you have Continue Reading

Categories Relationships

When a No is a Yes

Love doesn’t have to be hard. It doesn’t choke—ain’t suffocating. Rather, love, in fact, is gentle. It will make you realize that you are worth much more than a gold; you are deserving of all sorts of happiness in this world. A priceless gem. One of a kind. It will Continue Reading