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This time, I’m Choosing myself

It’s been months since the day you broke up with me dahil sabi mo pagod ka na sa paulit-ulit na away, gusto mo ng time sa sarili mo at gusto mo unahin ang pangarap mo–ang pangarap mo na hindi ako kasama. That was one of the most heartbreaking parts of Continue Reading

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Open Letter

Limang taon kitang gusto at ginusto. Mahal at Minahal. Matagal na panahon pero,   Talaga bang di na kita mahal? Maari bang mawala ang pagibig…  

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Open Letter

Limang taon kitang gusto at ginusto. Mahal at Minahal. Matagal na panahon pero,   Talaga bang di na kita mahal? Maari bang mawala ang pagibig…  

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An apology letter to myself

I am so sorry For all the silent battles you go through For staying up all night and crying to feel the satisfaction For making yourself dependent on some pills just to be productive For cutting some ties and closing some doors For not treating you as a priority For Continue Reading

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To my future bride

To my future bride. I hope in God’s journal we are next in line. In my 32 years of existing on earth, I think that was enough para dumating ka na sa buhay ko. A few woman came in my life, hoping that you are one of them but I Continue Reading

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“Biglaang Pagbabago”

Bawat yakap mo ay di madama, Bawat binibitawang salita ay di na naririnig pa. Bawat memoryang pinapaalala ay di na maipinta, Ano bang nangyari, bakit parang ako’y blanko na. Maraming katanungan ang sa aki’y umaaligid, Pilit kong inaaalam, sagot sa bawat luhang nangingilid. Masama na ba akong maituturing, Kung sarili Continue Reading

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“If Only”

Mga katagang may kabigatan, Lalo na kung hindi maluwag sa aking kalooban. Mga bagay na kailangang sundin, Para ang usapan ay hindi na pahabain. Ngunit paano nga ba ikaw tatanggihan? Kung bawat eksplenasyon ko ay nagiging masama sa iyong isipan. Iba ang pagkarinig, iba ang interpretasyon, Akala ko nung una Continue Reading

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Half-hearted

You always make me feel that you care And I know it’s genuine and fair But your love is different from mine And baby, I know we cannot compromise this time Forgive me if I asked too much And I forgive you for you didn’t catch I guess we’re meant Continue Reading

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It wasn’t just you. He got hurt too.

How about we flip the other side of the coin? How about we try to be empathic and see things from the other person’s perspective? I get that you got hurt. That’s fine. No one will judge you for bawling your eyes out because that’s usually a person’s initial reaction Continue Reading

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The one that got away.

I think all of us na feel na tong situation na ganito. Lahat tayo nakaka kilala ng isang sobrang special na tao but by chance na miss or na wawala sa atin. Like me. I met a girl that change my whole life, Yes whole life why? Because siya lang Continue Reading

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Huwag mo ‘ko turuang kumapit sa’yo

Puwede bang bumalik na lang tayo sa panahon na handa kang iwan ako? Sa panahon na wala akong ibang puwedeng maramdaman sa’yo, kundi galit habang pinipigil ko ang sarili na huwag na sa’yong masabik. Para hindi na kita bukas palad pang tatanggapin, at hindi ko na muling gugustuhin pa na Continue Reading

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Heavenly

when the sun goes down even the sky isn’t clear and clouds can seen anywhere but you the brightest in the night your so attractive lighting the entire world of mine and giving hope in the cold bleak evening but there’s a problem i can’t reach you the only one Continue Reading

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Do Not Try to Fix What You Have Broken

If you left your partner because you found new ‘kilig’ and ‘excitement’ that didn’t work out after a few months, never think of going back to the person you have broken. Don’t. Just don’t! Huwag mo siyang balikan kasi alam mong may malaking chance na tatanggapin ka nya ulit. Huwag Continue Reading

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To be loved back is a privilege

Love, by itself, is a human right. Falling in love, is a phenomenon. Dedication to love, is a commitment. Choosing what and whom to love, is a decision. To be loved back, however, is a privilege.  The reason why so many of us tend to get severely hurt when we Continue Reading

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PARA SA TAONG MAMAHALIN KO AT MAMAHALIN DIN AKO

Ngayon pa lang, nagpapasalamat na ako sa’yo. Alam ko, hindi ako madaling mahalin. Matagal na panahong ako’y mag-isa, siguro nasanay na, kaya hindi ko talaga alam kung paano magkaroon ng kasama, o kung paano magmahal at kung paano mahalin. Salamat, dahil sa dinami-dami ng taong nakilala ko, ikaw ang lumapit Continue Reading

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The Path

Stop chasing after the wrong person. Focus on taking care of yourself and let the right one find you.

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Dating in the Time of Quarantine

As a semi-conservative tita who came from a long-term relationship, it was scary to get myself out there and meet people. I’ve heard a lot of stories about hooking up, casual relationships and online dating from friends who are single, and it has made me realized how dating has changed Continue Reading

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Handa Ka na Ba?

Kahit saang kanto, puro jowa ang naririnig mo. Wag kang mainip, ihanda mo ang sarili sa pagmamahal ng totoo. Handa Ka na Ba? Atat na atat kang magkajowa Bakit handa ka na ba? Handa ka na bang piliin ang sarili mo? Sakaling makatagpo ka ng manloloko? Matatag na ba ang Continue Reading

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Naubos ka because?

Lagi ka na lang bang talo sa sugal? Baka naman kasi maling tao yang tinatayaan mo. “Eh gusto ko siya” ” Eh mahal ko” Pero natanong mo na ba yung sarili mo kung okay ka pa? Kung may natitira pa ba para sa sarili mo? Nagdidilig ka ng pagmamahal sa Continue Reading

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Why He left?

Why He left? Why it’s easy for him to leave? After courtship, dates, time you spent meet and greet with your friends and families, after Sharing secrets and success, Promises you both want to keep Plans you both want to pursue. Why it’s easy for him to leave? Why it’s Continue Reading

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He Got Married Today

They say, “Love is not measured by how long you’ve spent together but by how you’ve spent it together.” And I must agree with this. I totally agree with this. Almost four years ago, there was this not-so-young girl who fell in love. Akala niya, she already met “the one”. Continue Reading

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TO MY FUTURE WIFE

Hello!   This is me, your future husband. I don’t know you yet and probably if you’ll be given a chance, maybe you will choose not to know or acquaint me. You know what, I’ve been waiting for you all this time. Hoping that one day, while I was walking, Continue Reading

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special friend

friends kita kung ituring kop perodeep inside love ang tingin ko sayo in love k rin ba tulad ko? oh sadyang hanngang kaibigan lang ang tingin mo wag ka mag alala hnd na ako umaasa sa sulyap mo masaya na ako kung anung meron tayo spat na sa akin na Continue Reading