Singlehood – More Than Just A Status

What's your status? Are you single? How's your single life? how's your season? This is the usual question we got from anyone who do not know about us. Sometimes in the family reunion, you will encounter a question, "bakit wala ka pang asawa...

You Will Find Your Home Someday

Sometimes we wonder if there's someone out there. Someone who will welcome our hearts without pain, without doubt, without questions and second thoughts. Someone who will finally tell us "You are my home". Someday, our hearts will find its ...

An Open Letter to My Soon-to-be

Hi. What are you doing? Have you eaten? Are you busy? Couldn't keep my mind not to think about you. I'm wondering where you are right now. Are you in a relationship with somebody now? Or are you also in touch with your covenant with the Lo...

Anong excuse mo bakit single ka pa?

I’ve been waiting for him for almost 4 years, pwede naman yun diba? Yung maghihintay ka sa kanya pero hindi niya alam? It’s just like you’re taking risk, gamble kung gamble without any assurance mula sa kanya. He knows that I like him, a lo...

To the Man who was Unsure

Dear You, Thank you for the times you were there.Thank you for the memories you left.Thank you for the laughter and sadness.Thank you for the stories in my book you flipped. Thank you for you loved me, maybe.But above all, thank yo...

Pwede pero Depende

Ito ang mga natatanging repleksyun ng mga dalaga na matagal na mula nung huling nagmahal. Karamihan tinatawag silang strong independent women.  Kaya naman kung isa kang binata na gustong mapa-oo ang isang strong independent woman (with a he...

7 Years Of Being Single And Counting!

People are asking on how I stayed single for 7 years. Yes! 7 years, some can’t just believe it and I don’t understand why. But trust me, it was definitely a ride. For the first few years, I was so scared. I built a wall that I didn’t even l...

My not so charming prince and I

Have you ever thought of living in a fairytale? You being Cinderella, Aurora or Snow White. Well, I do. Ever since I was a child I've always  dreamt of having a prince saving me from my distress. I love watching those princesses meeting ...

Singleness Is Not A Curse But A Blessing

One of the reasons why many of us are impatient to be with someone is because we think that singleness is not a blessing but a curse. We think that the long period of time of waiting is a punishment from God. As a matter of fact, it is not....

BUNGA NG PANALANGIN

"BUNGA NG PANALANGIN" Naiinip ka na ba? Yung tipong jowang-jowa ka na. Sa tingin mo handa ka na, Pero wala pa rin si "the one" ika-nga. Lord kailan mo ba siya ibibigay? Ang tagal di tuloy ako mapalagay. Lord ilang taon pa ba akon...

Maybe

Maybe because she was left by the person whom she thought will be her future. No. Maybe it's because her mom failed to find her own "happily ever after" cliché ending. Could it be because her sister failed to find someone who will never h...

Things To While You are Still Single

SinglenessIsNotASickness KNOW YOUR PURPOSE - Being single is part of God's ultimate plan in your life. Allow God to mold you in his likeness and discover where God called you in this life. Believe me you are in this season for a reas...

Now is What Matters

The kind of discipline you want to have when you are older.. Learn it NOW. The good habits you want to have when you are living on your own and no one's taking care of you anymore.. Do them NOW. The kind of person you want to become w...

Believing

She glanced at his picture And all of a sudden, all those memories with him came rushing into her mind. Just like music instantly played out of the blue. And then there she goes again trying to make herself believe that he's still with her....

Para Sa Mga Single Pa Rin Hanggang Ngayon

Oo! Alam kong single ka pa. Pero sana alam mong okay lang yon. Sa panahon ngayon na naglipana ang dating apps, kasalanan na ang ‘di lumandi at ‘di magka-jowa. Sa panahon ngayon na lahat ng kaibigan mo ay in a relationship, kasalanan ...

Single in her late 20’s

This is a funny thing to write , really. It's quite not cute to write about your singleness is it? But i think I have enough good reason to blog about this season I'm currently at. And I hope this speaks plenty to the many still singles...

Save the Best to Last

Ever wondered if what would your future be like with the man of your dream? Or maybe the question is, have you ever dreamed of it? For some people, that dream had gone out of the window a long time ago, while others are still dreamy over a ...

Singleness is Not a Disease!

I’ve been browsing my Facebook profile this morning and I saw a post about singleness being a disability. You probably saw one in your social media too. Somebody somewhere is posting about him/her being single and they feel miserable about ...

Don’t stir up love…until you’re ready!

  You may be feeling left out at times dahil ikaw na lang ang nanatiling single sa barkada. Tipong naging sideline mo na ang pagiging thirdwheel at ilang kembot na lang eh gagawaran ka na ng parangal na "best taga-sana all ng tao...

To You Whom I Have Yet To Meet

To you whom I have yet to meet, It will be difficult for me to let you in my life because I'm used to being alone. I've already learned how to be okay with it and, on some days, I even take pride in it. The thing is that I've never been ...

Sa Isang kasal kailan pa nag hintay si Bride kay Groom.

Girl! much better na ikaw ang hinihintay  kesa  Ikaw ang nag hintay

Maginoo in a world full of “Pare chicks o!”

Do not use your eyes to scan her body coz these are made to appreciate BEAUTY. Do not use your mind for sexual fantasies, coz it is made for BRILLIANT IDEAS AND STRATEGIES. Do not use your tongue for catcalling, coz it is made to u...

Ang Pag-ibig na Hinintay

Una masaya lang ako na ang kasama ko KAIBIGAN lang OO, Hindi maiwasan na mainggit ako… OO, Hindi maiwasan na mapaisip ako… OO, Hindi maiwasan na sana ako rin MARANASAN ko ang MUNDO NG PAG-IBIG. Hanggang sa dumating ang araw na LUMAPIT KA ...

Minsan

Minsan, ang sugat na dinanas natin Kasalanan din pala natin. Nung dapat sana huminto Tayo’y nag patuloy Nung alam na nating delikado Tayo’y sumubok. Nung Nakita nating mali Tayo’y nakisapi.   Minsan, hindi din naman natin sadya. Hindi mo...

First Cut Is The Deepest

You were the very first person who made me feel this way. It was way too different and deep. I broke the walls that I have built for years. Now, I think you were the first heartbreak I had. ut you never had any clues for the storms you made I guess, and I won't let you know about that. I won't give you hints that I am dying inside, for it was my last straw.

Today’s Dating Scene For an Old Man

Sorry! I am still new to this thing. I never had a chance to experience this kind of dating. I was still stuck in my old self: this conformity of being a gentleman in this easy-to-get relationship. All I know is that women admire this kind...

I am having an affair with myself

  People think that I have been single for so long. For a time, I have believed in this too. But years went by and I started to realize that I am not really single. Truth is, I am having an affair with myself. I smile when I get ...

UNCONVENTIONAL STATUS

I have been single for two and a half decades now; by the way I am in my 25th year of existence, now do the math (hahaha). My civil status is something I don’t want to talk about, but everybody around me would love to talk about it. Thus, I...

I Am Not Easy

Just because I am single doesn't mean any guy can make a pass at me. Just because I am reaching my 30's doesn't mean I feel desperate to enter a relationship. Respect. Dignity. Purity. How many women tend to forget to keep these th...

Hanggang kailan ka mag-iisa?

Lumilipas ang oras, tumatakbo ang panahon. "Ber" months na naman, ngunit nag-iisa ka parin sa buhay mo. Ano ba ang plano mo? May balak sana ako, ngunit pinangungunahan ako nang takot na baka paasahin mo. Mabuti siguro na antayin ko...