To the Man who was Unsure

Dear You, Thank you for the times you were there.Thank you for the memories you left.Thank you for the laughter and sadness.Thank you for the stories in my book you flipped. Thank you for you loved me, maybe.But above all, thank yo...

Ready Ka Na Pero Single Pa Rin

Maybe you're asking this question right now or have been struggling with this thought for some time now. Or maybe…you’re bombarded with these crazy questions & statements from your “usosero at usoserang” friends and relatives; 1....

Single in her late 20’s

This is a funny thing to write , really. It's quite not cute to write about your singleness is it? But i think I have enough good reason to blog about this season I'm currently at. And I hope this speaks plenty to the many still singles...

A Message From Marupok To Marupok

Galaxyofunspokenwords' definition of marupok: adj. Filipino term for being soft-hearted; you are most likely marupok if you fall for someone too fast and too hard. Just a simple "hi" would make your legs weak; a simple "i miss you" would make you crumble.

No Boyfriend Since Birth?

“You’re too picky.” “Your standards are too high.” “Why don’t you try dating for experience?” I always hear those phrases from people who knew about my ‘relationship status’, some, from my friends. One time, I talked to a group of yo...

Perks of being single and why being single is not boring

Perks of being single and why being single is not boring Just a point of view :* 1. You can spend as much time as you want with your friends without feeling guilty (Di mo na kelangan mag paalam, at mag antay ng consent HAHA!) 2. You can ...

Let Love Find You

Let Love Find You Don't be afraid of people leaving you behind Let them go if they want to. Stop Chasing for someone who let go of your hands. Stop looking for someone you taught- "he might be the one." Stop searching for someo...

Single. Mag isa. Pero Hindi Malungkot

"Singleness is not a sickness" yan yung natutunan ko. Kung baga Blessed Singleness sabi nila. Oo, Single ako at matagal ng single sampung taon na mula ng first breakup ko sa una naging boyfriend ko. At after wala na ako naging boyfriend....

Bakit ka Single?

Bakit ka single? Yan kadalasan ang tanong ng karamihan sa akin. Tanong na hirap akong sagutin. Tanong na hindi ko alam ang sagot. Tanong na paulit-ulit kong naririnig. Tanong na kadalasan dinudugtungan ng mga katagang "baka ang choosy mo" ...

Magkano ang Pamasahe Pabalik Sa Dating Tayo?

Maraming katanungan na di man lang mabigyan ng matinong kasagutan. Ako nga ba ang nagkamali? O ikaw ang nagkamali kaya ako nalang ang bumitaw.  Ako nalang ang bumitaw.  Dahil sabi mo mas masaya ka pala nung wala ako sa ...

BUNGA NG PANALANGIN

"BUNGA NG PANALANGIN" Naiinip ka na ba? Yung tipong jowang-jowa ka na. Sa tingin mo handa ka na, Pero wala pa rin si "the one" ika-nga. Lord kailan mo ba siya ibibigay? Ang tagal di tuloy ako mapalagay. Lord ilang taon pa ba akon...

Am I Running Out of Time?

Sabi nila malapit na daw akong lumagpas sa kalendaryo. Isip ko naman, sus, meron pa namang lotto. Kunwari okay lang sa akin na mag-isa, Pero sa totoo lang, patuloy pa rin akong umaasa. Habang ang iba, unti unti nang bumubuo ng pam...

Uncertain Feelings

I somehow felt your feelings before, Its just that I don't want to assume unless otherwise stated. You were giving me hints about it but your actions do the opposite. You would normally talk to me if there are other people around but w...

Remember the Lesson

Remember The Lesson Everything happens for a Reason. Everything happens for a Lesson. Everything happens for a Season. There's always a reason and a lesson in every season God allows you to walk through, it might be difficult or easy bu...

An Open Letter to My Soon-to-be

Hi. What are you doing? Have you eaten? Are you busy? Couldn't keep my mind not to think about you. I'm wondering where you are right now. Are you in a relationship with somebody now? Or are you also in touch with your covenant with the Lo...

Paano galingan sa pagiging single?

We are now living in a generation where low EQ (Emotional Quotient) becomes evident. We are in a hurry to be in a relationship but always fall short probably because we lack two most important things: Discernment and Wisdom. At some point ...

Singles, Stop Doing These Habits

Not everyone is given the chance to have a partner in life. It is a reality that we have to face. But for those who have… cheers to you! Now let’s go to Single people out there who is “Okay Naman” pero they are having a hard time finding t...

Why am I still single?

Three decades and a three. But why you are still single? Are you in a relationship right now? When are you planning to settle down? When will you get married? Those are the frequent questions that quite bother a few if not most of the ...

Singlehood – More Than Just A Status

What's your status? Are you single? How's your single life? how's your season? This is the usual question we got from anyone who do not know about us. Sometimes in the family reunion, you will encounter a question, "bakit wala ka pang asawa...

This time, I’m choosing myself

When I was a kid, I used to believe I am everyone’s heroine; that with my own strength I can save the world. Fearless as I am, when someone is in need or when those I love was been hurt by someone, whether the concern person is younger or o...

December Singleness—So, What?

We had it all wrong all along. I don’t know about you but do you ever hear people or read some statuses about your friends groaning on social media because they don’t have a girlfriend or boyfriend to spend this Christmas with? I am sure...

Dear Self, I’m sorry. I Forgive you. Thank you.

I AM SORRY. I’m sorry for everything, not only for what I let others do to you but for what I did too.For when things went wrong, I took it all out on you.I’m sorry for the damage to you and for the times I went too far.For holding onto...

On Coffee, Trust and Second Chances

I can still remember the first time I drank a cup of coffee. The coffee was black; my first sip, bitter. Confused, I never understood why people, especially the older ones, loved to drink such a bitter liquid. But now that I’m in my mi...

Open Letter To All Women Who desire To Be Loved

You Are Not An Easy-To-Get Type of a Girl Sometimes, your current age will give you pressure and desperation to be with someone else—hopefully it is not. Age is not a barometer of your love life. Just because you are in the mid-thirty idoe...

To You Who Took the Risk

Dear You, I wonder how it happened. But it started somewhere. Everything starts at somewhere... Somewhere between my mind and my heart, I found something wonderful. Something that made me believe again. Somewhere along the aisle...

To all the Good Guys Out There

I hope you continue breaking the norm that guys aren't faithful and trustworthy.

Maginoo in a world full of “Pare chicks o!”

Do not use your eyes to scan her body coz these are made to appreciate BEAUTY. Do not use your mind for sexual fantasies, coz it is made for BRILLIANT IDEAS AND STRATEGIES. Do not use your tongue for catcalling, coz it is made to u...

To the woman who is single for a long time and still desires to love and be loved accordingly

" You are graciously designed to love and be loved. " Maybe you're sometimes in denial of what you feel. How hard you try to hide it and ignore it in your mind, you cannot deny the fact that there's a portion in your heart that longs ...

Para sa Lalaking Nagsabi sa Akin ng Hindi

Para sa'yo na nagsabi sa akin ng hindi, Gusto ko lang sabihin na salamat sa'yo, Salamat sa'yo dahil sa paghindi mo, Mas nakilala ko lalo ang sarili ko. Inakala ko noon pareho ating damdamin, Iyon pala ay ako lang ang umatim, Akala ko n...

In God’s time.

I was shattered by past heartbreaks. It caused me to become uncertain about love and believed that happy endings only happen in fairytales. I intended to build the highest walls that no man can ever break nor climb. I enclosed myself in my ...