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Set backs to set-up

All of us had our fair share of pain, disappointments, heart breaks, failure, losses and struggles on our journey. I know that none of those things I mentioned gave us a good time right? Experiencing those eventually results to breakdowns, tears and we end up getting lost; if possible, maybe Continue Reading

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No choice, but choosing yourself is worth it.

Dear self, its time to let go. Too much pain, you can’t contain. Stop holding on, to the things that’s hurting you most. Malaking bagay ang mawawala, maraming bagay ang magbabago, masakit pero it will be all worth it. Kesa umasang kakayanin pero lalo lang nahihirapan lumaban. Mahalaga sya, pero Continue Reading

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ACKNOWLEDGE YOUR EMOTIONS

  I said that I really love the book of Mitch Albom, Tuesdays With Morrie. But, I forgot one lesson of Morrie that we should acknowledge what we feel, even if it’s good or bad emotions. And that is okay. I forgot that. I forgot that we are all just Continue Reading

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An open letter to my fellow Kabataan

Kamusta ka? Alam kong pagod ka na, nakakapagod kasi ang buhay. Paulit-ulit lang, walang bago. Ngunit hindi yan ang dahilan para tumigil, life is not a sprint competition, it’s a lifelong marathon. Takbo lang, pag napagod magpahinga. Marami ka mang mapagdaanan sa buhay isipin mo na God will lead you Continue Reading

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Confessions of a Breadwinner

It’s hard. I have fallen into this deep pit. I’m stuck. I can’t breathe. I’m done. I don’t wanna do this anymore. I remember when I’d taken the responsibility onto my shoulder. I didn’t know what to do, until now actually, and I was lost. Some days are great, most Continue Reading

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Today’s Lesson

  What I learned today is that if you feel like you’re not invited, don’t go and invite yourself magmumuka kalang tanga kasi di ka naman talaga invited pumunta kapa. Kaya if you feel like napilitan lang silang isama ka kasi andyan ka, don’t go.

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How Does A Problem Starts?

It starts when…. you perceive everything based on your own perspective only. Yung moment na sobra na ang takot mo para sa iba, kasi takot ka para sa sarili mo. Parang OA na yung paglalagay mo sa sarili mo sa sitwasyon ng iba. Kaya madaming limitation. Ang madalas na nababanggit Continue Reading

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Plot Twist

Plot Twist. Sa lahat ng kuwento mapa-nobela, pelikula o drama man sa telebisyon isa ito sa mga dahilan kung bakit nagkakaroon ng buhay ang kuwento. Para bang ito ang natatanging sangkap sa isang lutuin na nagiging dahilan kung bakit espesyal o kakaiba ito. Ito ang dahilan kung bakit nagiging kapanapanabik Continue Reading

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Know your worth! (work edition)

Hi there! If you’re a fresh graduate looking for your first legit job or struggling with work, I have few words for you. I remember that feeling after I graduated, “finally, I’m done with school!”. But then reality woke me up. Now that you graduated, then what? You have to Continue Reading

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“Patawad, Paalam, Salamat”

“Paalam” is letting go of people you wanted to keep in your life. “Patawad” is freeing yourself of the pain from your past. I found this tweet [non-verbatim] from Moira dela Torre (a Christian and singer/songwriter whom I really super admire a lot) while scrolling on my Twitter feed a Continue Reading

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How to Cook Adobo

“Lagi mong tinatanong kung kumain na ba ako, teka Adobokita??? Ha!” Sabihin mo yan, baka hatiran ka ng ulam. Haha. Adobo lagi ang una kong naiisip kapag magluluto. Gusto ko lang i share kung papano ko niluluto ang adobo. Kunin ang karne ng manok/ baboy. Then pakuluan hanggang sa malaga. Continue Reading

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Happiness

Happiness is a loved ones smile, loyalty, warmth, conversations, understanding and time… freely spent… with you.

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Be unapologetically YOU.

Growing up, I am used to consider other people’s feelings more than my own. Being sensitive is my thing. Overly sensitive that mulling over the words I have said or actions I have done would take days before I get over it. There was a time when I get to Continue Reading

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Some things are never meant to be

Life is uncertain yet what makes it constant is change. It varies with seasons, modifies through time and moves like a wheel. Paradoxical in nature but we are to live with it. As if we have a choice, right? We encounter people come and go all throughout our lives. Some Continue Reading

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On Coffee, Tears and Secrets

Sometimes a coffee is the best company for whatever we’re going through, be it a celebration, mourning, alone time or just one of our whims. Tears sometimes fall down our eyes fighting secret battles only us know about, We often feel insecure about other’s achievement, relationship status or even how Continue Reading

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Ako, Mula sa Iyong Nakaraan

“Naniniwala ako na may naghihintay sa iyo, hindi man sa paraan o sa tao na iyong inaasahan.” Ngayong gabi, wala akong ibang maisip na gustong kausapin. O siguro, akma ring sabihin na ayaw kong makipag-usap sa iba. Nasa punto ako ngayon ng buhay ko, na pakiramdam ko walang makauunawa sa Continue Reading

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Live. Love. Laugh.

Living… ’tis when your days are filled with doing all the things that you love. Live more. Love more. Laugh more. Wisdom says, it’s a momentary journey… make it a great one! Bedtime Whiff of thought. Inspired May you find yourself between the lines.  © Angel Fizz 2021 inspired • live • love • laugh • bedtime-thoughts • fizz

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Each Time

Each time I get closer to meet someones energy, I end up getting burned. It’s a lesson I don’t need to go through, no more. If you want to walk beside me and look me in the eye, shift yourself up and tell me something about what you deeply love. Continue Reading

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Keep It Real

Find peace in the knowledge that you can’t sway people if they keep it real with you or not. What matters the most is your oath that you will always keep it real… with yourself. You can’t afford to lose yourself over gaining the mundane, the world and someone that Continue Reading

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Happy Mess

What is happiness? It seems like an odd question, but is it? Have you ever think that happiness is the same thing to you as it is to others? We live in such a beautiful mess world. We always questioned ourselves what’s the point of it all? Does being “Happy” Continue Reading

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Hanggang Balik Tanaw na Lamang

Sa bawat araw na dumaraan tila di ko mapigilan ang magbaliktanaw Sa mga araw na lumipas Sa mga panahon na nagdaan Minsan naluluha Minsan nagsisisi Minsan nagpapasalalamat Minsan puno ng saya Pinili ko ang mga desisyong nagawa Buong puso Walang takat Ngunit Iba ang kinahinatnan Akala ay walang wakas Akala Continue Reading

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Kaya Pa?

Ilang araw na lang at matatapos na ang taon. Nakaparami nating pinagdaanan, samu’t saring mga hamon di lang sa personal nating mga buhay kundi na rin sa buhay ng mga taong nakapaligid satin, mga mahahalagang tao na malayo satin at sa mga taong hindi natin kakilala. Hindi naman sa hindi Continue Reading

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An Open Letter To the Undecided

What to do when you don’t know what to do in your life? Maybe you just graduated in senior high school, took a STEM strand but still doubtful if you’re going to pursue engineering course in college. Maybe you’re a licensed teacher but you realize that you don’t want to Continue Reading

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There is Wisdom in Solitude

There are a lot of things or situations in which we can acquire wisdom. There are our self-experiences and some are taught to us by our elders based on their own encounters, but the place that we do not expect to get wisdom is from solitude. Solitude is the state Continue Reading

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Be The Person You Want To Find

Many books on relationships will tell you how to find and keep the right person, how to develop your communication skills – even how to properly “brand” yourself with the right set of attributes to attract a partner. While these resources offer plenty of helpful advice, they tend to overlook Continue Reading