To All the Boys I’ve Loved Before

  Love is something that makes us feel right. It somehow keeps us going on a day-to-day basis. My experience of love was a roller coaster ride. As early as grade school, I remember I had my first crush. He's cute. He has this ...

Hindi na Muli

Unti-unti na akong nasasanay sa mga malalamig mong reply.Unti-unti ko na din natutunan na wag ng maghintay.Sa mga "OK" mong sagot, na para bang napipilitan pa. Kahit na ang tanong ko naman ay kung "Kumain ka na ba?"Hindi na din ako magsese...

Open Letter To All Women Who desire To Be Loved

You Are Not An Easy-To-Get Type of a Girl Sometimes, your current age will give you pressure and desperation to be with someone else—hopefully it is not. Age is not a barometer of your love life. Just because you are in the mid-thirty idoe...

Anong excuse mo bakit single ka pa?

I’ve been waiting for him for almost 4 years, pwede naman yun diba? Yung maghihintay ka sa kanya pero hindi niya alam? It’s just like you’re taking risk, gamble kung gamble without any assurance mula sa kanya. He knows that I like him, a lo...

I Have A Curfew at 5pm.

I’m already 26 and every time I would say this to people, they don’t believe me. One, because I’m living alone in Manila, though I’m in the same apartment with my aunt and her daughter’s family. Second, my parents were situated in Nueva Ec...

Normalize Being Single Since Birth

If you suddenly click on this post then you are just like me wondering how in your 20's that you are still single since birth. "I hate my parents of being so strict on my relationships" "Am I that unattractive?"  "Am I boring?" ...

What If We Never Find The One?

We often read books, watch inspirational videos, and hear podcasts, saying it’s never a bad thing to be single. That we should use this alone time wisely and productively. To be good at being single. Because it will surely be worth the wai...

Coffee Date

"Coffee date" kuno pero stickers lang talaga habol sa'yo. Kilig-to-the-bones ka naman feeling mo may kayo. Kwentuhan, tawanan, pa-sweet ang galawan. Teka lang, alam mo ba motibo niyan? Nang makumpleto na ang stickers, siya ay n...
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Waiting Season is a Growth Season

In the realm of relationships, the period of waiting is an invaluable season of growth, a time to cultivate oneself rather than passively bide time. Embracing the discomfort of discipline, whether in personal development, career advanc...

Self Love Is The Best Love!

You love him/her more than you love yourself, but you don’t love yourself. Matuto ng self love bago pumasok sa relationship. Hindi ka papasok ng relationship dahil kailangan mo ng pagmamahal. Papasok ka sa relationship dahil magbibigay...

Sleep Well, My Brave Heart

Hi brave, I know you've been through countless and tiring battles these past few weeks, I know you got wounded by the people and circumstances that you encountered along the way. I've seen your toughness to overcome all of them and...

ENJOY YOUR SINGLEHOOD

We should rest comfortably knowing that God wants to give us a spouse. It is God who invented marriage and it is God who said: "It's not good for man to be alone." (Genesis 2:18) But God brought the help meet forth when God decided it was t...

You Thought It’s The BEST THING That You Never Had

I thought it's the best thing that I never had. This is for every one who thinks that their life is already done when every thing they had in mind and planned for their own did not end up so well. This is for every one who thinks that...

They :SINGLE ka pa rin? Me: Bakit may quota ba?

"They: SINGLE ka pa rin mag2- 2019 na ha? Me: May quota ba?" Well for sure, madami sa atin ang may mga ganitong mga bagay sa isip natin, na  gusto nating sabihin sa mga nag sasabi na "mag 2-2019 na.. baka single ka padin?".  Hindi maali...

Things A Woman Should Not Say

Things A Woman Should Not Say Unless you want to be judged. ********* You woke up with a sound of clock ticking. Tick tock. Tick tock. Tick tock. You tried to ignore it. Yet the more you tried not to think about it, it keeps on ringing...

Singlehood – More Than Just A Status

What's your status? Are you single? How's your single life? how's your season? This is the usual question we got from anyone who do not know about us. Sometimes in the family reunion, you will encounter a question, "bakit wala ka pang asawa...

Wait for your Jacob

Dumating na ba ang Jacob mo? Handa ka bang mag antay hanggang sa dumating ang Jacob mo? Pano mo nga ba malalaman na siya si Jacob? -Siya yung taong handang maghintay, kahit matagal tagal ang abutin. -Yung willing mag serve sayo at ...

Para sa Lalaking Nagsabi sa Akin ng Hindi

Para sa'yo na nagsabi sa akin ng hindi, Gusto ko lang sabihin na salamat sa'yo, Salamat sa'yo dahil sa paghindi mo, Mas nakilala ko lalo ang sarili ko. Inakala ko noon pareho ating damdamin, Iyon pala ay ako lang ang umatim, Akala ko n...

First Cut Is The Deepest

You were the very first person who made me feel this way. It was way too different and deep. I broke the walls that I have built for years. Now, I think you were the first heartbreak I had. ut you never had any clues for the storms you made I guess, and I won't let you know about that. I won't give you hints that I am dying inside, for it was my last straw.

7 Years Alone

Alone but not lonely has always been the cliché that I’ve been wearing for 7 years. Yes 7 long years. Perhaps that sounds unbelievable to most. I am usually stereotyped as the picky, perfectionist and idealistic human. “Why (are you still s...

I miss you but I don’t want you back

The story of you & me was like forever. We have our own way of saying I love you. We have our handshake. We compliment each other - and that’s what looks us a perfect couple. We plan everything ahead of time, when something comes up,...

Ba-ak Series #1

In the North where I come from, people who are not seen in the arms of someone are called "ba-ak" as in Tagalog "matandang dalaga" or "matandang binata". Personally, I have nothing against it but when I was younger, I cannot help but ask w...

Self-love: Why is better to lose someone than losing yourself?

A THREAD Him: Bakit takot kang magmahal? Me: (Speechless) Him: Was it an awkward question? Me: (Speechless) Him: So that means yes, right? I should have not asked you. Me: No, it’s alright. Him: So tell me. Why are you afraid of lo...

Late Bloomer

Not sure to spill a tea about this but I think it's time. My storytime is about my relationship happen way back in the Mid 20's and yup that's when I feel LOVE. So, I met this guy via mobile dating app (Telco network says Atin Ang Mundo). B...

What really is love?

What really is love? Love. It’s either gonna make you a winner or not. It’s the risk we always want to take, but is it always worth the risk? How can you love someone who doesn’t even feel the same way that you always do? Is love always...

Today’s Dating Scene For an Old Man

Sorry! I am still new to this thing. I never had a chance to experience this kind of dating. I was still stuck in my old self: this conformity of being a gentleman in this easy-to-get relationship. All I know is that women admire this kind...

Make your self Loved

"SIGN OF MATURITY" Loving your self first, before entering in a serious relationship is a must. Sayo dapat mag simula ang pagmamahal na hinahanap mo.

Love Find’s You when you are Ready

Just be yourself Someone will find you Perfect You cannot please everybody, But you can be a blessing to one    

The Single’s Creed

I can’t think of a better way to start writing this thing but to say that in every voice of a single’s cry is a heart full of hope that someday, it will be somebody’s “mine“. “Stop looking for LOVE at all the wrong places. TRUE LOVE has ...

Waiting for Boaz

Waiting for Boaz Staring at this beautifully-lit sky makes me wonder if I’ll ever have the chance to share this magical moment with my God-given Boaz. I am a hardcore romantic, but I only root for characters in novels & Asian dr...