I Cannot Pursue You Yet

I cannot pursue you Yet, And I might never do. I may be starting to like you a lot, in more ways than I had expected. I like all your good things, your beauty, your positive outlook on everything, your kindness, your positive energy tha...

To the man who still believes in old-fashioned courtship, keep it up!

To the man who believes that a woman is a treasure, I truly admire you. I wonder where you are. I wonder if you're near or far. No matter what it takes, I will patiently wait and desire to meet you. I have been hooked with the technological...

To the man who will love me for real, I will wait

I am certain that this heart of mine became stronger through time. I have kept it secured but open at the same time. I am still hoping and believing that one day, you will find me. I became tired of searching; but instead, I started praying...

Bye My Almost

Instead of sitting someone down to talk about our feelings, we play guessing games. We avoid asking questions about labels because we are worried about coming across as clingy or desperate or controlling. We let the love of our lives get aw...

Paano mag-move on, kahit hindi naging kayo?

Siguro ilang beses mo na rin kinumbinsi ang sarili mo that it's over. Kaso paano mo tatapusin ang isang relasyon na wala namang naumpisahan? To the other person, wala lang talaga. Pero para sa'yo. para kang nagmomove on uli sa isang break u...

What If Naging Tayo?

What if naging tayo? What if ako 'yung pinili mo? What if minahal mo rin ako?' Siguro, mas nakilala pa kita ng mabuti at nakilala mo rin ako. Siguro, may kanta tayong laging babalik-balikan at may palabas tayong parehong nagustuhan. Sigu...

Sana Kapag Pwede Na, Pwede Pa

Nababasa ko sa pagitan ng iyong mga salita. Nais mo na ako ay manatili ngunit ang oras ay hindi tama. Paano nga ba napunta sa ganitong sitwasyon? Tila punong-puno ng kumplikasyon. Alam natin kung ano ang nararamdaman ng isa't-isa, hindi nat...

An Open Letter to the Man I will Marry

To You, You know that I have been waiting for you. Days and months, then it turns to years, but I am still hopeful that someday, the Lord will cause our paths to cross. I don’t know who you are. Maybe we have met or even chatted together. ...

Can I love you even though I can’t have you?

You were someone that I always looked up to. You seem so near, yet so distant. I always used to love someone who is very close to me. But what is happening to me? I used to think that all of this is an illusion that was built up by my emoti...

Liham para saaking unang pag-ibig

Liham para sa aking unang pag-ibig,                  Marahil hindi ito ang pinaka magandang tulang maitatala ko sa oras na ito. Nais ko sanang sabihin saiyo ang aking naramdaman dahil alam ko na kung ip...

Why Take Your Time

1. Take your time. It is non-negotiable for someone to know your worth if they truly deserve you. 2. Take your time. Magbuild ka muna ng credible foundation, Develop yourself first and be a whole person. Single & waiting is a not a pun...

To the Person Who’s Willing to Wait

Waiting isn't really everybody's forte. You might get to know someone who likes you so much yet that person could not afford to take his time and wait around especially when you are still unsure of your own capability to love or love again...

Move on, kahit hindi naging kayo

Ang weird lang sa pakiramdam. Nasasaktan ka. Kinikilig ka. Masarap sa feeling kapag kausap siya. Pero ang tanong, ano ka ba talaga sa kaniya? Baka past time ka lang kapag bored siya? O baka naman ineenjoy niya lang ang company mo kapag wala...

Kelan ka mag-aasawa?

I know right? Sa title palang. But isn't it fitting to first ask, kelan ka magkaka jowa? LOL One toxic Filipino Culture every men and women aging 25-30 are facing is being asked by their relatives with the very familiar question: "Kelan...

Muntik nang maging tayo

Nagsimula ang lahat sa isang pag-uusap. Pag-uusap na sa pakiramdam ko naman ay may patutunguhan. Hindi pa kita masyadong kilala pero ang lalim ng connection ko sa’yo. Feeling ko yung kilig ko wala nang katapusan kasi paulit-ulit ko namang n...

Love Comes Back For The Second Time Around

All these years, I have come to realize that maybe love really never fades away. Maybe love is sometimes just lost waiting to be found, maybe it was just being left behind somewhere else, maybe it is just asleep and waiting for someone to c...

Sa ngayon, ako muna

Alam ko masarap na may kahawakan ng kamay tuwing naglalakad. Masarap sa pakiramdam na mayroon kang mapakilala sa mga kaibigan mo. May taga hatid at sundo ka. May kasabay ka maglunch o magdinner. May litrato kang malalagay sa social media ac...

25 Facts Only People In A “No-Label-Relationships” Will Truly Understand

1. It doesn't mean it's not official, the feelings are not real. 2. Even though everything seems confusing, let's be honest that happiness feels true, it's genuine. 3. We are afraid of the truth, of the real score, of the real thing so we d...

25 Rules for Unlabeled Relationship

Unlabeled Relationship Rules   Rule #1 Don’t get too emotionally attached. I know, parang sasabog na yang puso at butse mo kakasigaw ng pangalan niya but hold yourself together. Wait for the label, mas deserve mo yun. Rule ...

25 Things You Should Take Note After Loving The Wrong Person

1. Between you and the right person stands a line of wrong people. 2. People will always leave you, but darling, it doesn't mean it is your fault. 3. Some things will never work for your favor, no matter how much effort you put on it. 4....

Bakit Ba May Mga Taong Pa-Fall?

Siguro nahulog na ang loob mo sa isang tao na hindi ka sinalo. Sa madaling salita, hindi niya nabalik sa'yo yung feelings mo. Kaya ang ending, nasaktan ka at natakot nang ma-fall uli sa maling tao. You were broken-hearted at ikaw lang ang n...

Move On

All things work together for good. This was my story nung ma-brokenhearted ako sa EX kong si BJ. It was suppose to be a 21-day blog kung paano kong ini-handle yung pain ng breakup namin at kung paano ako nag-moveo on, pero umabot ng 6mon...

Para Sa Mga Single Pa Rin Hanggang Ngayon

Oo! Alam kong single ka pa. Pero sana alam mong okay lang yon. Sa panahon ngayon na naglipana ang dating apps, kasalanan na ang ‘di lumandi at ‘di magka-jowa. Sa panahon ngayon na lahat ng kaibigan mo ay in a relationship, kasalanan ...

Iwas Sawi: Tips Para Hindi Ka Umasa

Hey there, single ladies (and guys)! I have heard so many brokenhearted girls complaining about how they’ve been led on by some guy and how they felt like they’ve been betrayed, lied to or cheated on (Pinaasa nya lang ako! Akala ko ...

To the Man who was Unsure

Dear You, Thank you for the times you were there.Thank you for the memories you left.Thank you for the laughter and sadness.Thank you for the stories in my book you flipped. Thank you for you loved me, maybe.But above all, thank yo...

5 LDR Tips Para Tumibay Ka

Realities ng mga nasa LDR: maraming temptations at opportunities para mag-cheat mismatch yung schedule niyo para mag-usap madaling ma-misunderstand yung mga messages niyo napupunta sa cold treatment ang mga conflict at hindi inaayo...

Gusto kita pero

Alam kong matagal ka nang naghihintay. Matagal ka nang nag-hahanda. Ngunit patawad, Kaibigan. Dahil gusto kita pero hindi kita kayang mahalin. Patawarin mo ako kung hindi ko kayang i-pagsigawan. O sabihin man lang sayo ng harapan an...

Someday, I’ll Stop

Someday, somehow, I'll stop waiting for your responses, I'll stop checking whether you have seen my messages, I'll stop keeping an eye on your FB stories, and I'll stop visiting your timeline, The day will soon come when I'll stop tal...

Waiting takes time. But what if I’m nearing 30s?

You are nearing your 30s, or perhaps you are beyond calendar days and you are still single. Maybe you have not experienced any past relationships or maybe you had once, twice or more but things went differently and you ended up alone and yo...

Pafall at Paasa, and how to prevent it. Tips and Tricks!

Ang dami dami na ang nag rereklamo tungkol sa paasa at pafall. Maririnig mo ito sa mainstream media tulad ng Television shows, Movies, at pati narin sa mga Advertisment, gamit na gamit ang katagang ito. Syempre dahil nasa panahon na tayo ng...