To the man who will love me for real, I will wait

I am certain that this heart of mine became stronger through time. I have kept it secured but open at the same time. I am still hoping and believing that one day, you will find me. I became tired of searching; but instead, I started praying...

5 LDR Tips Para Tumibay Ka

Realities ng mga nasa LDR: maraming temptations at opportunities para mag-cheat mismatch yung schedule niyo para mag-usap madaling ma-misunderstand yung mga messages niyo napupunta sa cold treatment ang mga conflict at hindi inaayo...

What If Naging Tayo?

What if naging tayo? What if ako 'yung pinili mo? What if minahal mo rin ako?' Siguro, mas nakilala pa kita ng mabuti at nakilala mo rin ako. Siguro, may kanta tayong laging babalik-balikan at may palabas tayong parehong nagustuhan. Sigu...

Muntik nang maging tayo

Nagsimula ang lahat sa isang pag-uusap. Pag-uusap na sa pakiramdam ko naman ay may patutunguhan. Hindi pa kita masyadong kilala pero ang lalim ng connection ko sa’yo. Feeling ko yung kilig ko wala nang katapusan kasi paulit-ulit ko namang n...

Thank You For Not Choosing To Stay

That night, when I asked you to leave, at the back of my head, I said, "Please, don't let me go." And the world agreed with what my heart wanted, and it shouted your name. But still, you left. I had to agree and surrender. Thank you for...

Para Sa Mga Single Pa Rin Hanggang Ngayon

Oo! Alam kong single ka pa. Pero sana alam mong okay lang yon. Sa panahon ngayon na naglipana ang dating apps, kasalanan na ang ‘di lumandi at ‘di magka-jowa. Sa panahon ngayon na lahat ng kaibigan mo ay in a relationship, kasalanan ...

Bye My Almost

Instead of sitting someone down to talk about our feelings, we play guessing games. We avoid asking questions about labels because we are worried about coming across as clingy or desperate or controlling. We let the love of our lives get aw...

Kelan ka mag-aasawa?

I know right? Sa title palang. But isn't it fitting to first ask, kelan ka magkaka jowa? LOL One toxic Filipino Culture every men and women aging 25-30 are facing is being asked by their relatives with the very familiar question: "Kelan...

To the man who still believes in old-fashioned courtship, keep it up!

To the man who believes that a woman is a treasure, I truly admire you. I wonder where you are. I wonder if you're near or far. No matter what it takes, I will patiently wait and desire to meet you. I have been hooked with the technological...

Sana Kapag Pwede Na, Pwede Pa

Nababasa ko sa pagitan ng iyong mga salita. Nais mo na ako ay manatili ngunit ang oras ay hindi tama. Paano nga ba napunta sa ganitong sitwasyon? Tila punong-puno ng kumplikasyon. Alam natin kung ano ang nararamdaman ng isa't-isa, hindi nat...

Para Sa Taong Gusto Rin Ako Ngunit Hindi Pa Tapos Magmahal Ng Iba

Sabihin mo mang limot mo na siya Hindi mo pa rin mapagkakaila sa iyong mga mata Na tila ipinahihiwatig nito'y sa kanya ka pa rin sasaya At sa loob-loob mo'y lagi mo syang naaalala Sabihin mo mang limot mo na siya Ngunit nakikita ko pa rin ...

Bakit Ba May Mga Taong Pa-Fall?

Siguro nahulog na ang loob mo sa isang tao na hindi ka sinalo. Sa madaling salita, hindi niya nabalik sa'yo yung feelings mo. Kaya ang ending, nasaktan ka at natakot nang ma-fall uli sa maling tao. You were broken-hearted at ikaw lang ang n...

Move on, kahit hindi naging kayo

Ang weird lang sa pakiramdam. Nasasaktan ka. Kinikilig ka. Masarap sa feeling kapag kausap siya. Pero ang tanong, ano ka ba talaga sa kaniya? Baka past time ka lang kapag bored siya? O baka naman ineenjoy niya lang ang company mo kapag wala...

Open letter to a struggling self

Dear self,  I know you’ve been struggling lately. You’re not yourself and you seemed lost in a place you’ve never been before. I know you’re wandering thru the midst of nothingness right now — unable to find the right path and wher...

Sa ngayon, ako muna

Alam ko masarap na may kahawakan ng kamay tuwing naglalakad. Masarap sa pakiramdam na mayroon kang mapakilala sa mga kaibigan mo. May taga hatid at sundo ka. May kasabay ka maglunch o magdinner. May litrato kang malalagay sa social media ac...

Wag Mag Imagine kung Di Pa Umaamin

The problems kung inuuna mo yung imaginations before clarity. Assumption is a mother of all confusions. Assumptions is  termites in relationship. Solutions or Tips: Watch out for lines na smooth pero walang direction. ...

I Cannot Pursue You Yet

I cannot pursue you Yet, And I might never do. I may be starting to like you a lot, in more ways than I had expected. I like all your good things, your beauty, your positive outlook on everything, your kindness, your positive energy tha...

Pafall at Paasa, and how to prevent it. Tips and Tricks!

Ang dami dami na ang nag rereklamo tungkol sa paasa at pafall. Maririnig mo ito sa mainstream media tulad ng Television shows, Movies, at pati narin sa mga Advertisment, gamit na gamit ang katagang ito. Syempre dahil nasa panahon na tayo ng...

25 Facts Only People In A “No-Label-Relationships” Will Truly Understand

1. It doesn't mean it's not official, the feelings are not real. 2. Even though everything seems confusing, let's be honest that happiness feels true, it's genuine. 3. We are afraid of the truth, of the real score, of the real thing so we d...

25 Rules for Unlabeled Relationship

Unlabeled Relationship Rules   Rule #1 Don’t get too emotionally attached. I know, parang sasabog na yang puso at butse mo kakasigaw ng pangalan niya but hold yourself together. Wait for the label, mas deserve mo yun. Rule ...

Paano mag-move on, kahit hindi naging kayo?

Siguro ilang beses mo na rin kinumbinsi ang sarili mo that it's over. Kaso paano mo tatapusin ang isang relasyon na wala namang naumpisahan? To the other person, wala lang talaga. Pero para sa'yo. para kang nagmomove on uli sa isang break u...

Move On

All things work together for good. This was my story nung ma-brokenhearted ako sa EX kong si BJ. It was suppose to be a 21-day blog kung paano kong ini-handle yung pain ng breakup namin at kung paano ako nag-moveo on, pero umabot ng 6mon...

To the Person Who’s Willing to Wait

Waiting isn't really everybody's forte. You might get to know someone who likes you so much yet that person could not afford to take his time and wait around especially when you are still unsure of your own capability to love or love again...

To the Man who was Unsure

Dear You, Thank you for the times you were there.Thank you for the memories you left.Thank you for the laughter and sadness.Thank you for the stories in my book you flipped. Thank you for you loved me, maybe.But above all, thank yo...

Why Take Your Time

1. Take your time. It is non-negotiable for someone to know your worth if they truly deserve you. 2. Take your time. Magbuild ka muna ng credible foundation, Develop yourself first and be a whole person. Single & waiting is a not a pun...

Maraming Salamat at Paalam, aking Ama! Hanggang sa muli nating pagkikita…

Tatay, Daddy, Papa, Erpat, Tatang, Itay…Anumang katawagan pa yan.. sila ang tinagurian na ating haligi ng tahanan… Sa aking ama, salamat sa walang sawang pagmamahal. Ikaw ang aking sandalan sa mga panahong hindi ko na kaya. Ikaw ang nagb...

An Open Letter to the Man I will Marry

To You, You know that I have been waiting for you. Days and months, then it turns to years, but I am still hopeful that someday, the Lord will cause our paths to cross. I don’t know who you are. Maybe we have met or even chatted together. ...

Relationship Green Flags

Content from the BW Podcast   Change Someone with the proven ability to change. There's growth. There's change! Hindi  puro promises at potentials. potential is potential but potential is useless without cultivation like a rich soil...

Liligawan Ko Na Ba?

Paano ba pag may girl na pasok sa standards mo tapos gusto mo’ng kilalanin… KILALANIN lang muna ah. Pero di naman agad liligawan.” “… kasi diba, di naman maiwasan na pag interesado ka na may kilalanin, kahit paminsan di naman sinasadya, p...

Iwas Sawi: Tips Para Hindi Ka Umasa

Hey there, single ladies (and guys)! I have heard so many brokenhearted girls complaining about how they’ve been led on by some guy and how they felt like they’ve been betrayed, lied to or cheated on (Pinaasa nya lang ako! Akala ko ...