Mahirap talaga mag move on lalo na kapag lagi mong iniisip na sya na ang “Da One”, kapag naplano mo na yung venue ng kasal nyo, ilan magiging anak nyo, mga pangalan nila, pero wala pa namang ‘kayo’. Malabo. Bukod sa di sya umaamin, wala syang balak umamin kasi wala naman talaga syang nararamdaman for… Continue reading Paano matanggap na hindi sya ang “The One”?
Category: Move On
To the Person I Secretly Admired: It Was Enough.
I have watched you from the sidelines since I first met you. Sorry… I know, it sounds creepy but I did it anyway. I watched you laughed and enjoyed the company of different kinds of people. I saw how you cared and how grateful you were when given even the simplest of efforts. I saw… Continue reading To the Person I Secretly Admired: It Was Enough.
Make it short but real
Holding onto someone does not mean it will make you happier; Letting go of someone does not mean it will make you feel lighter; And doing the right thing does not mean it will now be easier.
BRAVE BROKEN CONFUSED LONGING
He is brave enough to admit mistakes, But not brave enough to take a risk and reciprocate. Maybe he is not ready yet. Maybe his wounds still bleed and hurt. Maybe he still has the trauma of his cold and dark past That his pain turned into spikes and impaled people around him. He feels… Continue reading BRAVE BROKEN CONFUSED LONGING
Finally, we’re married.
“Dear“, that’s what you call me. You said that you’ve chose it because for you, it means someone who is close to your heart. You are decade older than I, and it’s almost funny how you tried to meet me halfway. When I was lost and scared, you were my knight in shining armor. You… Continue reading Finally, we’re married.
Why Do People Who Loved The Most Felt The Most Pain?
Falling in love is the most magical feeling between two people. Love and pain are twins. You cannot call it love without experiencing pain. Falling in love is accepting the flaws of each other. Love is unpredictable. It can be sappyㅡsad and happy at the same time. Loving someone wholeheartedly and fully is good… Continue reading Why Do People Who Loved The Most Felt The Most Pain?
Importance of Having a Closure
Most of us, after a failed relationship or kahit no label relationships (NLR), desire for closure, in the hopes of properly ending what we once had with this person or help us heal and move on. For me, closure is really the key for moving forward. That closure is the thing that will help you… Continue reading Importance of Having a Closure
Dear My Unanswered Prayer
Dear My Unanswered Prayer, I know that you love someone now and all I can do is to move on. But I am happy to see you just the way you are as you walk away from me. Even sometimes, I just look behind not hoping for your comeback but for me to see how… Continue reading Dear My Unanswered Prayer
Maybe, it was love
“It’s love”, He said“It’s not”, Finally, I’ve proven Maybe at some point in our time, it was truly love. It has been years already when you confessed your love for me. It was like a huge storm raging all over me, unexpectedly. I thought, it wasn’t serious. A puppy love as what they used to… Continue reading Maybe, it was love
It Will Never Happen.
I’ve read a lot of messages.. been told with a lot of advices. I’ve listened and cried to a lot of songs just as much as how I did with the photos I’ve deleted one after another. It was never easy. But I want to believe that with all that had happened, all I need for… Continue reading It Will Never Happen.
Letter to D
I already settled into thinking I am unloveable. No one will like me. I am the worst and I’ll be alone forever. Then you came. Told me your love was never gone. You liked me since we were kids until now. We had our past, we had our lives, and you want your future to… Continue reading Letter to D
A Year after Pain
During that time I have one feeling that surpasses all other feelings – Pain. The person I love and trust left me, telling me that he loves another person. The pain was too fresh that time that whatever I see or wherever I go that reminds me of him, I feel sad, lonely and so… Continue reading A Year after Pain
Signs When To Do Necessary Ending
There are relationships that are worth keeping for but unfortunately, there are some too that we have to put necessary ending for our sake. Not that we don’t love the other person but because it will be destructive for both of you. Here are the red-flags that you need to watch out for. 1. Physical… Continue reading Signs When To Do Necessary Ending
To the Man who Left me Behind
At first it was hard, like we just meet each other just to leave a scars and lessons. You left me without telling any reasons why we end up like this. You make me happy, feel loved and special in the short time we spent together. I missed the times we’re both listening on each… Continue reading To the Man who Left me Behind
Pills of Acceptance
I asked my favorite teacher in high school this exact question, “If you are to invent something, what will you invent and why?” She looked me in the eyes while delivering her answer, “If I were to invent something, I would invent a pill, a pill of acceptance. The pill does not necessarily make you… Continue reading Pills of Acceptance
Ang Huling Tugon
Sila’y muling nagkita at nag-usap na tila ba’y gusto na niyang tapusin ang lahat. At dahil sa paulit-ulit niyang pagkakamali, wala na siyang karapatang ipaglaban pa ito. Sapagkat alam niya sa sarili na ito na ang huling tugon na kaniyang maririnig sa taong pinahalagahan lang niya, pero hindi niya tunay na minahal. “Ako’y sa iyo,… Continue reading Ang Huling Tugon
An Open Letter to The One That Got Away
Dear TOTGA, Our eight years were mostly the happiest moments of my life. Lucky enough I was able to capture and keep it. I even kept random things that you gave to me; chocolate wrappers, dried flowers, and our letters—that’s how sentimental I am. I treasured everything– every moments, and even more the person I… Continue reading An Open Letter to The One That Got Away
Lessons Learned after a Failed Eight Year Relationship
The word challenging or difficult is not enough to describe how it feels to end a long term relationship. Some days were good , but there are days when you would feel all over the place. I guess that’s what healing is all about, going through the entire cycle of getting hurt, feeling okay and… Continue reading Lessons Learned after a Failed Eight Year Relationship
While She Was Hurting
Many times, she questioned her worth. Oftentimes she asks what she has done to deserve the pain. She just loved, she gave her all, and she got nothing but heartache in return. Oh, the never-ending questions. The need to gather answers from things unknown. She is by far the only person I know to be… Continue reading While She Was Hurting
Someone please save me..
Nakakalungkot din mag isa. Nakakalungkot din minsan na umasang baka may right one. Ah baka nga masyado na ko maswerte sa pamilya ko. Im still lucky i have my parents and my younger siblings. Nakakapagod na din umasa na baka dumating o sya na. Baka deserve ko talaga maging isa. Baka eto talaga ung nkalaan… Continue reading Someone please save me..
NA-GHOSTING KA NA BA?
Unfortunately, there is no magic potion to quickly forget and recover from your ghosted heart.
Broken Promises
It’s still vivid to me, how it started with you asking a simple favor from me, and from there we started talking every night. I enjoyed your company, your humor, your wits, your love advice, and your faith. From the start, I told you all about my fears, my flaws, my scars, and all the… Continue reading Broken Promises
Paano ba mag-move on? Paano nga ba??? Practical Ways Lang Po…
Paano ba mag-move on? Paano nga ba??? Iyan ang laging tanong ng karamihan, lalo na ng mga palaging sawi sa pag-ibig. Isang tanong na may maraming sagot. Mahirap ipaliwanag pero ginagawa natin ng hindi natin alam. Isang proseso na mas mahirap pa kaysa sa panliligaw o sa pagla-laydown ng intentions natin o pag-amin ng ating… Continue reading Paano ba mag-move on? Paano nga ba??? Practical Ways Lang Po…
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I know how this story ends. Cause there are places you go back toSeemingly familiar scent, impossibly comforting warmthThis… feels wrong but feels so right at all levels. With all the chaos, I find peace in your armsAnd when you’re gone it feels like everything just crumbles downDown to a place where I’m all by… Continue reading Untitled
‘Di Bale Na
di bale na~ pwede bang magsimula sa umpisakung saan puro saya at walang pangambapwede bang matapos na ang dulonang mapawi mga alaalang may sakit nang kahalo. pwede bang tumigil muna ang orastumigil sa araw na lahat ay pataspwede bang marinig ang iyong isipannang matigil aking mga palaisipan. ano pa nga bang saysay ng mga katanungan,lahat… Continue reading ‘Di Bale Na
To the One who Walked Away
I love you, but you walked away So okay I’ll be here healing I’ll be here waiting But not for you Of course, not for you I’ll be here waiting for the day When I can genuinely say, “Thank you for walking away” I closed my journal as I finished reading the poem I… Continue reading To the One who Walked Away
To the man I built for another woman
Tell her the things I made for you and all the places we’ve been Tell her all the things you love and all the things you’re keen Tell her what makes you happy and let her sing you lullabies tell her what makes you cry And all of your sighs Tell her everything without me… Continue reading To the man I built for another woman
-For the love we had once, STL ;
“Morning Love” This was the last message you’ve sent me. The last message where I still felt the love you once had for me. Or maybe I was wrong. I’d like to ask you about the promises you made. You told me once that you’d stay no matter how hard this would take us. You… Continue reading -For the love we had once, STL ;
An Open Letter To The Boy Who Got Rejected
You Got Rejected? It’s Okay. Maybe… She needed to graduate first.She’s in love with someone else.She looks at you as a friend.She looks at you as her brother.She isn’t looking for a serious relationship.She has high standards.She didn’t find you attractive.She chooses career over relationships.She got scared because your feelings are too strong.She’s waiting for… Continue reading An Open Letter To The Boy Who Got Rejected
Magkaibigan na NEVER Magkaka-IBIGAN
Lately, I just feel so in love with this man who apparently loves a lady who is definitely not me. Each day, I adore him, not because he’s perfect… as a matter of fact, he’s not even close to being one. Ironic isn’t it? A lot of people fall for another, mostly because of their… Continue reading Magkaibigan na NEVER Magkaka-IBIGAN