I am not easy to love You may say that I am a damsel in distress; A collection of paradoxes; a chaos I came with warning signs; with red flags Slightly damaged; slightly used but still functioning It’s been years since that magical feeling knocked on my door They call it love I did not… Continue reading Always
Category: Relationships
Lifetime
So, napakinggan niyo siguro yung “Lifetime” ng Ben&Ben. Ano kaya masasabi ng BW Mentors natin about sa love story ni Anne? Para sa akin, may laan sa kanya. Hindi yun lubusang pagmamahal mula sa isang lalaki or mas may itinakda siguro si Lord para sa kanya. Even though, sobrang pagmamahal yun on her end kasi… Continue reading Lifetime
Bakit?
di ko alam san ako nagkamali binigay ko lang nman ang alam kong dpat pero bakit parang ako pa ang mali binigay ko ng buung buo ang puso ko pero bakit unti unti nang nadudurog ito wala nman akong hinihingi sa yo kundi oras mo mali nga siguro na sa yo umikot ang mundo ko… Continue reading Bakit?
I know what I deserve but…
Bakit parang ako palagi? Sa tuwing may tampuhan, sinusuyo kita, iniintindi kita. Pero pag ikaw na ang taya, wala na. Ekis na. Uwian na. Kasalanan ko pa. Dahil sa ako ang hindi marunong umintindi. Dahil sana naisip ko man lang yung mararamdaman mo bago ako mag tampo? Sabi mo nga, “Nag sorry na nga diba?”… Continue reading I know what I deserve but…
Ghosted: We Were Almost
How does it feel to be ghosted? In today’s modern dating, there is no way for anyone not to experience being ghosted, at least once. Ghosting does not only happen to people who exclusively date, but also to those who flirt. It happens everywhere to anyone. It is the new normal in the world of… Continue reading Ghosted: We Were Almost
When Time and Universe Allow, We Can Give It Another Try
Our paths will cross again, when the universe allows. Maybe then, timing is already ours to keep. We met at the most unexpected way, at a familiar place, and at the wrong time. You came to me as a stranger and who would have thought that you now hold a piece of my being. You… Continue reading When Time and Universe Allow, We Can Give It Another Try
The 3 C’s Of Great Relationship
CLARITY Clarity is the state of being clear. Know what your intentions are in a relationship. Intentions are meant to be pure and clear. A relationship is like journeying to a particular place. With clear intentions you are more likely to reach your goal that is to arrive at your final destination. Your intentions and… Continue reading The 3 C’s Of Great Relationship
What goes around, comes back around
What goes around, comes back around. This is the basic principle of how karma works. This means that if someone treats other people badly he will eventually be treated badly by someone else. Same thing around in relationships. When someone cheats, he’ll be cheated also in the future because his present deeds will affect his… Continue reading What goes around, comes back around
What if hindi naging tayo?
Kung hindi naging tayo, hindi sana kita hahanapin sa bawat taong makiklala ko. Unang pagkaka-mali ko pala ‘nung nahuli ko ang sarili ko na naka-titig sa’yo. Naubos lang ang oras ko sa kaka-pantasya kung hawak ko ang kamay mo. Kung sana lang, nanatili ako sa lugar ko, walang nawasak na puso. Wala sanang nasaktan, wala… Continue reading What if hindi naging tayo?
New Normal: In The Wilderness
As I listened to Ps. Steven Furtick’s sermon about NEW NORMAL, sobrang napaisip ako na oo nga ‘no? Israelites have been captive and servants in the land of Egypt for 430 years and they find it NORMAL. Normal lang na slave kami, na lahat ng ginagawa namin e dapat nakasunod sa kung anong gusto… Continue reading New Normal: In The Wilderness
Tonight
Love Hurts!
Love hurts. It does. If it doesn’t, then what is the point of all of it? The relationship and all that? It hurts, because pain is demanding to be felt — so bad. Because in loving, you take risks. Nothing is certain, nothing is ever certain. You take risks of getting hurt by people you… Continue reading Love Hurts!
Tips Sa Mga Confused!
Tip Sa Mga Confused. Just because one likes the same weird things you do, just because one does the same weird things that you do, just because one says the same expressions that you say. It doesn’t mean that you have found the one. Keep your guard up. Never be led by the butterflies in… Continue reading Tips Sa Mga Confused!
“Just Friends” But Did You Really Guard Your Heart?
Someone knocked on your door. You’ve been single for a year, felt guarded, so you decided to let him in. After a few weeks, you realized he wants to get to know you as a friend. You believed in the saying, “Never assume unless otherwise stated.” So far, no red flags were shown or so… Continue reading “Just Friends” But Did You Really Guard Your Heart?
MOBILE LEGENDS
Bahala na..
Bahala na.. Isang katagang palagi natin naririnig tuwing di na tayo sigurado sa mga bagay na ating gagawin. Bahala na.. ang salitang galing sa “Bathala na” na ang ibig sabihin ay pinapaubaya na naten sa mas nakatataas ang lahat. Bahala na.. salitang paulit-ulit na naglalaro sa isip ko ngayun. Oo, tama ka. Mahina ako dahil… Continue reading Bahala na..
To the Woman I Like But I Can’t Love
To the woman I like but I can’t love, I hope you’ll understand why I can’t. Believe me, I would if I could. And don’t get me wrong as someone who is just saying these words only to get into you. I still can’t because there’s still a lot of things I need to figure… Continue reading To the Woman I Like But I Can’t Love
9-Day Challenge to Kick You Out of My System
Though kicking someone else out of your life is a daunting task, but with growth mindset, an ounce of motivation, and faith in God, YOU can do it! So, I set up this 9-day Challenge to kick someone out of your system. Take it one day at a time. Day 1. NO CONTACT RULE. Just… Continue reading 9-Day Challenge to Kick You Out of My System
Have an Elevated Perspective Before Entering Into a Relationship
We humans tend to live in the present moment. We respond first and foremost to what we see, hear and feel. We mostly react instead of think. We limit our thinking to what our senses provide, to what is immediate and to the things that feel temporarily good. Because of this, our reasoning powers neutralized.… Continue reading Have an Elevated Perspective Before Entering Into a Relationship
To You, My 2019 Plot Twist
I’ve had my fair share of heartbreaks and failures when it comes to love and relationships. Wala pa akong nagiging girlfriend/boyfriend before but liking someone and the pain a love lost costs does not need labels. Kahit crush mo lang, nasasaktan ka. Minsan nga ang OA pa. Tapos lagi na lang, ikaw yung taga-sana all… Continue reading To You, My 2019 Plot Twist
Work From Home, nakakasira nga ba ng relasyon?
I am so sure that no one wants what is happening right now, or even on the past few months. Lahat ng tao apektado, kahit nasaang parte ka pa ng mundo. I am in a relationship and we are facing a challenge caused by the current situation in the world. Isa akong OFW at nasa… Continue reading Work From Home, nakakasira nga ba ng relasyon?
Do not Demand Clarity From A Guy Who Is Unsure Of How He Feels For You
Do not lead the guy. Never. Well, unless you feel the need to. I am sure there was one time in your life when you thought and felt that someone likes you. However, you were unsure because he never said he does. It was a feeling caused by mixed signals — constant communication, exchange of… Continue reading Do not Demand Clarity From A Guy Who Is Unsure Of How He Feels For You
What is like to be in love?
I wonder what is like to be in love. In a way that you go head over heels. The against all odds kind of thing. The feeling that your world revolves around that person. Your eyes were blinded and see nothing but him. And the thought of making him happy is what you live for.… Continue reading What is like to be in love?
Bakit takot ka magmahal?
There are times na hindi mo mapipigilang tumibok uli ang puso mo. Minsan hindi mo mapagkatiwalaan yung sarili mong nararamdaman kasi sawa ka na sa pag-ibig na hindi naman nagtatagal. Kakahanap mo kay “the one”, lagi kang napapadpad sa sitwasyon na ang puso mo ay laging napapalaban. Hindi mo alam kung tama pa bang sumubok… Continue reading Bakit takot ka magmahal?
Wait For The Right One
I’m done wasting my time with the wrong guys that I decided to wait the right man. I hardly moved on to my ex-boyfriend but I did and I had so many flings before, my relationship with them was a mess different guys same shits. Being with the wrong guys will make you feel you… Continue reading Wait For The Right One
You are enough!
Minsan mas mahirap maging mapag isa. Mas worth it yung oras kasi narerealize mo kung sino ka nga ba sa mga oras na lumilipas. Kumbaga nagkakaroon ka ng self appreciation para naman makita mo kung gaano ka kahalaga na hindi nakikita ng iba. Lahat tayo ay worth to LOVE, worth to APPRECIATE and worth the… Continue reading You are enough!
We need to take a break!
Pagod ka na ba ? Sa lahat ng sakit at pagtitiis na ginagawa mo ngayon ? Pagod ka na ba unawain lahat ng bagay na kahit sarili mo hindi mo na tinanong kung okay ka pa ba ? Pagod ka na ba manghingi ng atensyon sa taong halos kahit pipikit pikit ka na pinipilit mo… Continue reading We need to take a break!
There Is Something More In Being A Woman
You may not be able to meet a man who would give you the love you deserve. You might not be able to have a family of your own —have kids and woke up to a husband beside you. You might not win in the game called love, know that life does not end there.… Continue reading There Is Something More In Being A Woman
Waiting: What’s in it and what comes with it?
How should someone patiently wait in line? Waiting is not an easy journey. Same with life; it has its ups and downs. You have to prepare in so many ways on how do you make sure to get in the finish line as first place with gold medal — well, still no assurance of… Continue reading Waiting: What’s in it and what comes with it?
Saan Patungo? Harapin Tunay Mong Dadamdamin
hindi ko naman hinangad ang basta basta umibig sabi din naman nila, hindi daw ito hinahanap pagka’t sa bawat tao ang pag ibig ang kusang dumarating kaya’t sa pag iisa’y ako’y walang problema’t nasanay kaya’t noong ika’y dumating sa’king buhay, ako’y napaisip ito na nga ba kayang sinasabi nilang pagmamahal takot na takot, duwag na… Continue reading Saan Patungo? Harapin Tunay Mong Dadamdamin