Category: Relationships

UNA AT HULI Unang iniisip pagmulat ng mga mata Kumain ka na ba? O gising ka na ba? Oo nga may pasok ka, baka nga Bumiyahe ka na. Unang iniisip kapag nakikita ko sila Sila na magkahawak ng kamay, Sila, sa isa’t isa’y kumakaway Ako, na mag-isa, walang kasabay Unang pinangarap ko, Pagkatapos ng mahabang… Continue reading Una at Huli

So you’re here to find out what terribly went wrong how she’s gone and left you but footprints and thoughts?  Now you missed her laughs? Without even noticing how she faked her smiles everytime you messed up and forgives you easily. Now you missed her cuddles? How about the times she’s longing for you but… Continue reading WHAT MAKES HER CHANGE?

Bat Ganun? Ang dami kong tanong na gustong masagot. Napakaswerte ko dahil I’m already dating my long time crush ko. Pero bakit parang may kulang, bakit parang may mali. Mahalaga daw ako sa kanya kasi I’ve always been there for him. Ano nga ba ang totoong nararamdaman niya para sakin? Ito nga ba’y totoong pagmamahal… Continue reading Bat Ganun?

So how do you bear the pain of being abandoned and betrayed? Recently, I got disengaged. It was a moment that I never dreamt to happen to me. No woman would even dare to want to experience such terrible pain of losing those dreams, visions, and future you have built together. When someone that you… Continue reading In the Midst of Abandonment and Betrayal.

Mahal kita pero ano nga ba talaga tayo? Tuwing inaalala ko mga panahong magkasama tayo, ngiti ang palaging nagiging hugis ng aking mga labi. Yung mga oras na magkahawak tayo ng kamay, mundo’y parang tumitigil at lahat nagkakaroon ng saysay. Mahalaga ka sakin at ako’y mahalaga sa’yo. Ngunit ano nga ba talaga tayo? Hindi na… Continue reading Mahal Kita Pero

Noong una sinisisi ko ang sarili ko kung bakit tayo naghiwalay.  Lagi kong naiisip ang mga salitang sana at paano kaya kung. Pinuno ko ang sarili ko ng mga pagsisisi na kalaunan ay nilamon ako. Masakit. Mahirap. Hindi mo alam ang hirap ko. Hindi mo alam kung gaano ako nasasaktan.  Hindi mo alam dahil iniwan… Continue reading Huling Sulat Bago Ang Paglaya

We feel happy when someone remembers us. We feel special when someone gives us attention. But the question is are they just comfortable or there’s more than that? There could be a reason why people like to talk to you. You could be someone who is willing to lend your ear to the problems of… Continue reading Being Comfortable Vs. Being In Love

I used to believed in every promise that you utter. Hoping that it would make me feel better. But I was wrong you left me behind Feeling empty and scattered. All I’m thinking is that I’m scared to love again. How long will these wounds healed? And where should it may lead. Is This really… Continue reading UNDESTINED

You fell in love and that’s okay. You have exerted the needed effort to make it work. You fought selflessly. You fought shamelessly. You really thought that it’s okay to still hold on. When things didn’t work, you tried harder. You understood, accepted and loved him without any doubt. You fought for what you have… Continue reading It’s Okay Not To Be Okay

Google says, it traps insects then drowns them with rain water. I remembered someone while reading this on a boring day at work. It reminds me of you, yes you. My ninja ex. You looked so kind, vulnerable, so honest and it felt like it’s fantasy. It’s too good to be true. Finding a decent… Continue reading PITCHER PLANT

You’ve knocked on my door with me knowing you have someone out there you called your princess, baby, honey and so much more. I may be insane for letting you in, but what can I do? I am still in pain and I still can’t keep it in. Days have passed and still you’re keeping… Continue reading To the someone elses someone,

My Love, Day off mo nga pala… Nandito na ako sa Manila, nakauwi na din ng house, nagmessage na din ako sayo. Pero wala ka siguro sa bahay. Love, dumating tayo sa panahon na hindi mo na kailangan ipaalam kung saan ka pupunta, kung aalis ka ba, yun kahit nasa labas ka you will find… Continue reading Before I Lay Myself to Sleep

Gusto kitang ipaglaban pero pwede ba munang magpahinga? Maari ba namang huminga Mula sa samut-saring sakit at pait Mula sa pagkahapong hindi naalis Mula sa kapagurang tila laging nandiyan. Pagod na ako Pero gusto kong huwag kang sukuan Kaya maari bang sa aking pagkahapo Kamay ko ay hawakan mo At ipaalala kung saan at paano… Continue reading Gusto kitang ipaglaban

No label but with feelings.    Let me introduce myself first, I recently broke up with my 3-year relationship when I met this girl. The reason why I broke up with my ex is because she’s too possessive, our relationship is so toxic, she doesn’t have trust in me, if I decided to go out… Continue reading I don’t know stage.

One day, I will get the love that I deserve. The intensity of what I give will all come back to me.  Like how the moon dies every night to let the sun breathe, no matter how hard it would take, the moon would still sacrifice for the sake of the sun.  One day, someone… Continue reading The Love That I Deserve

Try thinking about it. In a world where everyone tries to define something by what fits for them, everyone has their own definition of something. I believe one of the words that are being mistakenly defined is manhood. The first definition that our father or some adults that influence us is that becoming a grown… Continue reading When is Manliness Really Manliness?

So all those times I have been living my life on my own, I have come to realize and appreciate my alone time. There are moments that I think I am better with someone else but I can also feel that the universe is trying to tell these things to me. I learned that am… Continue reading What I Learned From Being Single For Years

We cannot keep someone who doesn’t want to be kept in the first place. It is magical, superficial. It is as if all the love you are giving away for so long on wrong people finally found its way back into you. It is as if the reality of love is here and embracing you… Continue reading This Is Why Almost Relationships Are Toxic

You are currently nameless. You don’t have a name. You are somewhere out there living your life, sipping a coffee in a coffee shop, taking pictures near the beach and watching as raindrops slide down the window of your room. You are clueless about my existence. You don’t even know I’m here. All you know… Continue reading Open Letter to the Woman I’d One Day Marry

Please, do not court her… yet. Think about your decision. Ponder about this choice. Let your feelings subside and then decide when you are already not intoxicated by your own emotions because this is a decision both of you don’t want to regret. Most people, especially the impulsive ones, regret a lot of things simply… Continue reading Do Not Court Her… Yet

They says that life is very strange. Some says that life is also weird. Marami ding nagsasabi na “love” is mysterious. On the other hand, “love” is a designed masterpiece. Marami nang kanta ang naisulat but then it never measured kung gaanu ka-simple ang definition ng buhay at pag-ibig. Those songs just made everything even… Continue reading Naniwala Ako sa Himala, Simula ‘nung Nakilala Kita

I asked God If it’s possible for Him To just take you to The farthest place you know Perhaps there it will be easier To fight over admiration Perhaps there it will be easier To move over to other inspirations I asked God If it’s possible to put my heart To silence now or never… Continue reading I Asked God

“Let me tell you how it feels like to fall deeply in love in your early 20s.” When you fall at your early 20s, you tend to overthink too much. You’re anxious about what the future holds because this time, all you’ve wanted is to be so certain. You’re no longer seeking for something temporary.… Continue reading The Truth about Falling Deeply in Love in your Early 20s

Maybe it will never work with anyone else, because I find bits and pieces of you in every man I meet. And I know that deep in my heart, it will always come down to you. And no one will be as close to the man you were when you loved me.

Learn to let go when there’s nothing more to hold on with. Learn to believe that the right person will always make it worth the fight — the right person never leaves. But if the person whom you believed to be right didn’t stay, choose to leave the past behind too. Never trapped yourself to… Continue reading Time Will Tell When to Let Go

Bigla kang kumatok.  Nag-isip ako kung tatayo ba ‘ko para pagbuksan ka pero masyado na ‘kong abala sa pag-iisa.   Matagal-tagal na mula nang may huling kumatok na pinagbuksan ko. Napatanong ako sa sarili kung sisilip ba ‘ko,  masyado kasing marami ang kandadong nilagay ko para walang makapasok. Pagbubuksan ba kita? O katulad ka rin nila?… Continue reading Salamat sa Hindi Pagsuko

he came to my life where in i was at my worst scattered into pieces, damaged he brought back the life that has been snatched from me of the last person i loved that day, i was so happy.  he made me felt how to be alive again i was brimming with something that seems… Continue reading Slowly losing you

It’s already 12:32am and I am still awake. I was in a jeepney two hours ago when I overheard two women talking about relationships. They said that guys of our generation are afraid of commitment. One of them asked the question that bugged my head for hours now: “Ano bang benefits ng commitment (What are… Continue reading Ano Bang Benefits ng Commitment

Not everyone has the courage to admit that they hurt somebody and because of our reluctance to accept that we hurt someone, the world continuously hurt. Pain, I think, will only start to vanish, if we accept that we are beings in dire need of grace. Humility is always the way to becoming the best… Continue reading An Open Letter to the Lady I Hurt