Bakit Ba Tayo Nagiging Marupok?

This came through my mind while a friend of mine rants about herself being marupok. Oo nga naman bakit nga naman? My mind came with different answers. Nagiging marupok tayong mga babae kasi mabilis tayo maattach, di ko naman nilalahat pero ...

Signs He’s Not Ready for a Relationship

Let's talk about mga red flags na dapat mong aminin at wag i-deny na hindi pa talaga siya ready sa isang serious & committed relationship. Malay mo, ikaw rin pala yung di ready. He’s inconsistent in his pursuit of you. Ito yung m...

PWEDE BA KONG MANLIGAW? MAY PAG-ASA BA AKO?

Open letter to every guy courting girls out there... As a girl who experiences moments where guys would always ask “Pwede bang manligaw? May-pag-asa ba ko?”, until now, I’m still bothered with those very common questions. Hahaha. I also as...

You’re A Nice Guy Pero Mailap Pa Rin Si Lovelife

"You're A Nice Guy Pero Mailap Pa Rin Si Lovelife" YES! YOU’RE A NICE GUY PERO WHAT IS MISSING IS AN EDGE FOR YOU TO BECOME A TOTAL PACKAGE. Here are some of the arsenals that you can add to your game: A SENSE OF ADVENTURE Yea!...

When You Like The Feeling, Not The Person

Of course, everyone wants to be liked. The feeling is surreal, right? That feeling we get when somebody tells us that they like us? It gives us a sense of pride or identity that we are somebody worth pursuing, right? Oh, everyone loves t...

Chasing Clarity: The importance of ‘malinaw na usapan’

Our relationships with people should have two things: boundaries and clarity.

Paano Magsulat ng Love Letter?

1. Pray. Nobody knows your spouse and how he or she is best loved like God. Pray that He’ll enable you to love and honor your partner well. 2. Make a list. Start with three categories: Things I like and love about you; Things you do for ...

Paano Mo Malalaman Kung na-“Zombieing” Ka Na

Tips Paano Mo Malalaman Kung na-"Zombieing" Ka Na Isa sa mga deadly moves ng mga immature na tao ang "Zombieing". Hindi tulad ng "Ghosting" na bigla silang magpaparamdam nung una at pagkatapos ay biglang mawawala na parang multo, ang "Zo...

Real talk: Standards

Nowadays, people have been smart in terms of choosing their partners. Kaya lang minsan sobra na eh. The problem with us people is that we have this thing called "standards", bes wag mo ideny. You know, there's nothing wrong with having the ...

Top 15 Boys You Should Avoid

Or pwede ring TOP 15 BOYS YOU SHOULD STOP DATING 😊😊😊 Anyway, here's your most-awaited list:     1. Criminal Literal man o habitual offender. Yung guilty sa kasalanan pero walang planong magbago. Walang konsensya. Mapri...

Must-Have Date Techniques Part 1

Deal-breakers can strike at any moment especially if you get too complacent about your current strategy. Over the course of my experiences on meeting a lot of people, I got to formulate my own “Trade Secrets” or my ways of being different a...

Wag All Out! Set Boundaries!

Boundaries Another important aspect of a relationship is to respect each other’s personal boundaries. A boundary is a property line that defines where you end, and someone else begins. Good relationships have a high degree of respect for e...

DATING vs. COURTSHIP

I personally make a big distinction between dating and courtship. Dating can callous your heart and severely detract your relationship with Jesus Christ. The difference between dating and courtship is motive and heart condition. You date...

Pointers for the semi-gwapo when dating:

1. Be a gentleman. Class and character says a lot. 2. Let her choose where she want's to eat. But be firm where to eat if she can't decide where. 3. Try to make her laugh, or at least make her smile. Sense of humor is your ace. 4. Ask...

Mr. Chatty – I hate your phone!

How can I compete with a gadget that gives you everything? A medium to search for anything you want, a camera that captures images like a real human eye, a device where you can do a lot of things, and most especially, a channel where you ca...

When you fall in love…

Fall in love with someone whom you can consider as a best friend at the same time. Someone who can handle your tantrums and melt downs. Fall in love with someone who loves your soul more than your body. Someone who makes you feel sec...

Para sa Lalaking Nagsabi sa Akin ng Hindi

Para sa'yo na nagsabi sa akin ng hindi, Gusto ko lang sabihin na salamat sa'yo, Salamat sa'yo dahil sa paghindi mo, Mas nakilala ko lalo ang sarili ko. Inakala ko noon pareho ating damdamin, Iyon pala ay ako lang ang umatim, Akala ko n...

Consistency is the new sexy

In this world full of "there are many fish in the sea", why don't be that person who'll stay consistent till the end? Masaya kayang magmahal ng iisang tao lang. Iisa lang puso mo, hindi ba't dapat iisa lang din ang nilalaman? Be consistent ...

A good woman deserves a good man — what does it take to be a good man.

A good man values a woman more than just her looks."Ladies, is every compliment from him is about a different body part?Red flag na yan. Layuan mo na si boy."Sup bruh? You reading this? Wel...

If You Are Tempted to Cheat or Date Two Women at the Same Time, Read This

I don't know. I just feel like writing this down. This is something that men right now needs and to be honest this is a constant struggle for men. There's a lot of beautiful women out there and as much as you want to want more than one, ...

Waiting: What’s in it and what comes with it?

  How should someone patiently wait in line? Waiting is not an easy journey. Same with life; it has its ups and downs. You have to prepare in so many ways on how do you make sure to get in the finish line as first place with gol...

Dear You

I know I can be too tough sometimes.I know I'm too much to handle at times.I know I can also be too weak most of the times. But will you be there during those times? Will you? I understand that you've got your own life and dreams. I'd b...

Ligtas ang may alam.!

Dont you go through life worrying about whether somebody like you or not, you best be making sure they are doing right by you.

A Warrior Princess’ Advice to Men

A friendly advice to guys... If you want a strong, godly woman for a girlfriend/spouse, you’ve got to man up. Pray about it and once God says go, TELL HER. In person. Because ladies like her aren’t the kind to get strung along by ninja ...

Kapag gusto mong mag pakatanga dapat handa ka ding masaktan

mas madaling hindi masaktan, kapag hindi mo sinabing gusto mo sya. Mag sisimula ka lang umasa na may gagawin sya sa katotohanang alam nya na may gusto ka. Kapag gusto mong mag pakatanga dapat handa ka ding masaktan.

Landi lang? Walang Label

ilang beses mo na bang naranasan magkaroon ng ganito? ako, paulit ulit tong nangyayare. history repeats itself sabi nga nila. pero bakit kailangan maging ganito? di ko naman to pinili. di mo rin naman to ginusto. pero laging tanung mo, ba...

In God’s time.

I was shattered by past heartbreaks. It caused me to become uncertain about love and believed that happy endings only happen in fairytales. I intended to build the highest walls that no man can ever break nor climb. I enclosed myself in my ...

NEVER DEPEND

To my girlfriends who are struggling with their unstable emotions, please take time to read this one. Never depend your happiness to someone who doesn't see your worth as a woman. Dapat pinahahalagahan ka. Never depend your emotional ...

Move to, HINDI Move on.

Dear You, Tayo'y masaya at nananahimik. Paglipas ng panahon, ako'y sayo't ika'y akin. Ngunit bakit nawala sa ihip ng hangin? Anong nangyari sa atin? Sabi mo kailangan mo ng pahinga. Sabi mo kailangan mo ng space. Sabi mo kailang...