Tips Para Iwas Pokmaru

Part 1 1. Mindset: wala siyang gusto sayo, friendly lang (unless umamin) 2. Isiping mataas ang sugar level niya kaya sweet sayo 3. Explore friendship with others para di kayo exclusive, di ka pdf, wag maattach! 4. No chat beyond 11PM,...

Signs He’s Not Ready for a Relationship

Let's talk about mga red flags na dapat mong aminin at wag i-deny na hindi pa talaga siya ready sa isang serious & committed relationship. Malay mo, ikaw rin pala yung di ready. He’s inconsistent in his pursuit of you. Ito yung m...

Chasing Clarity: The importance of ‘malinaw na usapan’

Our relationships with people should have two things: boundaries and clarity.

Paano Mo Malalaman Kung na-“Zombieing” Ka Na

Tips Paano Mo Malalaman Kung na-"Zombieing" Ka Na Isa sa mga deadly moves ng mga immature na tao ang "Zombieing". Hindi tulad ng "Ghosting" na bigla silang magpaparamdam nung una at pagkatapos ay biglang mawawala na parang multo, ang "Zo...

Anong Gagawin After Niya Biglang Tumigil Manligaw Sayo?

Acknowledge your emotions. Masaktan ka kung masaktan ka.  Talk it out. It's your chance to use that speed dial. Grieve well. Okay lang mag-on repeat ng kanta ng December Avenue.Remember your worth. You are more than another...

Bakit Ba Tayo Nagiging Marupok?

This came through my mind while a friend of mine rants about herself being marupok. Oo nga naman bakit nga naman? My mind came with different answers. Nagiging marupok tayong mga babae kasi mabilis tayo maattach, di ko naman nilalahat pero ...

In God’s time.

I was shattered by past heartbreaks. It caused me to become uncertain about love and believed that happy endings only happen in fairytales. I intended to build the highest walls that no man can ever break nor climb. I enclosed myself in my ...

The Only One for Me

I just want to remind you everyone why that someone didn't end up with you because God will give you much better and most importantly don't rush. Does anyone here already tried Tinder, Bumble and Coffee Meets Bagel? I've been ghosted severa...

Waiting: What’s in it and what comes with it?

  How should someone patiently wait in line? Waiting is not an easy journey. Same with life; it has its ups and downs. You have to prepare in so many ways on how do you make sure to get in the finish line as first place with gol...

Dating the Right Person

Throughout the rest of this article, we’ll look at four principles that will help you choose the right person, be the right person, and develop healthy relationships. Connection A relationship is first and foremost ab...

Paano Magsulat ng Love Letter?

1. Pray. Nobody knows your spouse and how he or she is best loved like God. Pray that He’ll enable you to love and honor your partner well. 2. Make a list. Start with three categories: Things I like and love about you; Things you do for ...

Ligtas ang may alam.!

Dont you go through life worrying about whether somebody like you or not, you best be making sure they are doing right by you.

Hindi lang ikaw ang tatagpo sa standards ko, dapat ako rin.

I still can recall the nights that I've prayed for my ‘soon-to-be’ man and specified for it. Many of us, girls, are looking for someone who’ll share our ups and downs in our life. And when I remember how I prayed to God about my man when I ...

Wag All Out! Set Boundaries!

Boundaries Another important aspect of a relationship is to respect each other’s personal boundaries. A boundary is a property line that defines where you end, and someone else begins. Good relationships have a high degree of respect for e...

Bakit Ba Tayo Nare-reject?

Have you ever been rejected? Sa babaeng nililigawan, sa isang trabahong gusto mong makuha, o kaya naman ay sa mga kaibigang gusto mong samahan. Iba-iba ang ibig sabihin sa atin ng salitang rejection, pero isa lang ang epekto nito sa mga tao...

A good woman deserves a good man — what does it take to be a good man.

A good man values a woman more than just her looks."Ladies, is every compliment from him is about a different body part?Red flag na yan. Layuan mo na si boy."Sup bruh? You reading this? Wel...

3 Simple Tips on Dating a Foreigner

1. Commit to good communication. A lot of misunderstanding will likely happen simply because you probably have a different world view. Ask questions like, "What did you mean when you said that?" and "Why do you feel that way?" and be open t...

Naghost ka na ba?

Naghost ka na ba? yung tipong ang sweet ninyo sa chat. Consistent ang batian tulad ng "good morning, kain ka na, tulog na ako or etc." Tas lumalalim rin ang nararamdaman mo para sa kanya, at habang tumatagal nafafall ka na habang nakikilala...

Is long courtship a proof that he’s the one?

So here goes, he courted me for 4 years, we were in a relationship for 7 years, so technically, we've been together 12 years before the break up. We started soft, I mean, tago muna sa aprents coz I have to pass the board exams, nursing kasi...

Mga tulang nakakabighani

Gumagawa ako ng tatlong tula lamang sa isang linggo sapagkat pinagiisipan ko talagang mabuti ang aking ginagawang tula at naghahanap ako ng inspirasyon para dito ninanais ko at sinisigurado ko na akin talaga ang mga tula na inilathala ko....

Pointers for the semi-gwapo when dating:

1. Be a gentleman. Class and character says a lot. 2. Let her choose where she want's to eat. But be firm where to eat if she can't decide where. 3. Try to make her laugh, or at least make her smile. Sense of humor is your ace. 4. Ask...

Advice to Pokmaru

Advice for Pokmaru na kagaya ko: When you meet a guy tapos nafeel mo na na mahal mo na siya “kuno” Huwag agad aamin or mag iinvest agad-agad ng damdamin, TEST YOUR HEART. Know him deeply, mas madali siya na makilala kapag nasa circle of ...

If You Are Tempted to Cheat or Date Two Women at the Same Time, Read This

I don't know. I just feel like writing this down. This is something that men right now needs and to be honest this is a constant struggle for men. There's a lot of beautiful women out there and as much as you want to want more than one, ...

My Dating App Story

I want to close this season of my life that's why I'm writing this to share my story. Before anything else, I want to clarify na hindi masama gumamit ng dating applications if you're not into Netflix and Tiktok especially this Enhanced...

Landi lang? Walang Label

ilang beses mo na bang naranasan magkaroon ng ganito? ako, paulit ulit tong nangyayare. history repeats itself sabi nga nila. pero bakit kailangan maging ganito? di ko naman to pinili. di mo rin naman to ginusto. pero laging tanung mo, ba...

Letter to YOU

You, I can’t help but write. It’s starting again. All over again and I can’t help it. I am terrified. The sudden rush in adrenaline and the speed in every beat of my heart are once again relived. I thought it died so I buried it somewhe...

Consistency is the new sexy

In this world full of "there are many fish in the sea", why don't be that person who'll stay consistent till the end? Masaya kayang magmahal ng iisang tao lang. Iisa lang puso mo, hindi ba't dapat iisa lang din ang nilalaman? Be consistent ...

DATING vs. COURTSHIP

I personally make a big distinction between dating and courtship. Dating can callous your heart and severely detract your relationship with Jesus Christ. The difference between dating and courtship is motive and heart condition. You date...

Two Important Questions Bago Buksan ang Puso: For Ladies

After years of being a strong, independent woman, you've finally decided that you would no longer just be single anymore, but that you would now start to be active and go mingle-galore. Congratulations! But before...

Things to remember when you are about to date someone who is emotionally healed.

Don’t be surprised if you will not be noticed right away. He will not see anything extra ordinary this time but don’t lose hope. It might not be evident but he still sees every version of you. He is going to be very straightforward of what...