The world has its view on things. Beauty is defined as those having the curves at the right places, pointed nose, poreless face, flawless and porcelain white skin, tall, feminine, stylish… and the list goes on. We try to fit in into the world’s standard of beauty. Isn’t it true? We spend money on buying… Continue reading This happens when you know your worth
Category: Adulting
Recollection of Choices
Humankind dreams that life would be fair. That life would be seasoned as how they want it to be. To trust and to be trusted. To forget pains and sufferings when needed. In other words, you want to control everything that happens in your life just like movies and fairy tales which seemed to be… Continue reading Recollection of Choices
25 Things You Need to Remember to be a Game Changer.
Go after your dreams, not people. Love yourself and wait to be majestic. Never lose your sense of wonder. You are capable of more than you know. No regrets. Embraced the lessons. YOUR ONLY LIMIT IS YOU. Life goes by in a blink of an eye. So live the moment. If you are unhappy, change… Continue reading 25 Things You Need to Remember to be a Game Changer.
Does My PATH Leads Me To You?
There are one way, two ways, crossings and dead ends on a road. It’s always easy to drive in a one way trip when you don’t know where to go. You just need to follow the road and find the landmark of your destination. But what if there are turns which you do not know… Continue reading Does My PATH Leads Me To You?
Note to my 28 year old self
Hi, You are aging gracefully dearest. Know that you are loved and you deserve all the love in the world. You do not need to worry about the future because that’s for tomorrow, you have to live and enjoy life today and that’s how it should be everyday. You may feel tired at times and… Continue reading Note to my 28 year old self
True Love Won’t Hurt You
I had been through so much ups and downs in life. I had learned a lot from being stubborn and self-willed. I hurt people and got hurt by them. I had been through pain and heartaches. But those struggles that came my way, I had learned what love was really all about. All of us… Continue reading True Love Won’t Hurt You
Before you look for LOVE, find a LIFE muna.
One of our deepest longings is to find someone who’ll love us unconditionally. All of us at some point or season wants to have a love life. However, when we find someone who we want to spend our life with, issues arises that cause us to give up on each other. Maybe because we’re not… Continue reading Before you look for LOVE, find a LIFE muna.
For Me in the Future
Hey, First of all, sana tumangkad ka kahit kunti lang – kahit one inch lang, masaya na ako. Sana rin ‘di ka na insecure sa flabby arms mo at sa strong muscular thighs of an Igorot. I hope you love your physical body as much as you love your ideas and thoughts. I wouldn’t be surprised… Continue reading For Me in the Future
Embracing Imperfections ❤❤❤
Fat body, dark complexion, pimples on the face and many more imperfections people used to throw towards me. Growing up with a lot of imperfection builds low self-esteem. It made me feel less than others. It places insecurities in my heart. I felt that I don’t belong and people doesn’t like me. I came to… Continue reading Embracing Imperfections ❤❤❤
Be Real
Staying real in a world that is powered and controlled of Social Media isn’t easy at all. We seek for the feeling of belonging. We want to be on trend. We follow what many are doing. We live for likes. We measure our worth with the number of followers we have. We embrace the modernity… Continue reading Be Real
Today, I Call the Shots
They say, “life is complicated” and “change is inevitable. If things were complicated, then uncomplicate it. Easier said than done right? If change is inevitable as it is, then learn to adapt and embrace all the changes. At this point, life is teaching me life in a hard way. I never learn. I let things… Continue reading Today, I Call the Shots
Disconnecting from Social Media and the Peace it brought me; An act of Courage.
My Facebook Friends will definitely testify how active I am in Facebook, how many times I post photos of myself, what I am into, my activities and my circle of people hanging out with. My Instagram Friends will prove how crazy I am posting Instagram stories about everything I am doing in a daily basis… Continue reading Disconnecting from Social Media and the Peace it brought me; An act of Courage.
HOW TO DEAL WITH CHISMIS
Scenario 1. Kung ikaw yung pinagchichismisan, eto yung mga bagay na pwede mong gawin: 1. Kausapin mo yung taong alam mong nagkalat ng chismis tungkol sayo. Harapin mo siya. Kausapin mo ng maayos. Tanungin mo bakit ganon yung pinagkakalat niya. Lalo na’t kung alam mong hindi totoo yung pinagkakalat na chismis patungkol sayo, kausapin mo… Continue reading HOW TO DEAL WITH CHISMIS
Friends Don’t Look, Touch and Hear Like This
It was when the universe is half asleep but our conversation sways from our childhood memories and dreams, from how sloppy and messy we looked like way back on our senior years to how our looks changed now that we are working in a corporate world. You keep on asking me how did we not… Continue reading Friends Don’t Look, Touch and Hear Like This
But What If This Time It All Comes Back Together?
And from that certain moment, after long years of living on your own universe, set of walls and boundaries, for once… you feel afraid. You feel that you’re afraid when your eyes started to stare his. You cannot understand it for the first time. You are trying to compose what was it about but you… Continue reading But What If This Time It All Comes Back Together?
As you age it gets lonelier
When the sun sets on the west and the light begins to fade, my mask comes off and my demons come crawling in my bed to accompany me for the night. Constellation of thoughts running in my head, galaxy of concealed emotions in this gullible and fragile heart keep me awake and as I stare… Continue reading As you age it gets lonelier
Let’s Make This World Still A Better Place To Live
In a world that’s trying to make you feel that it’s better to be a shithead or an asshole, be nice. Be warm, be compassionate. Be the better person not just for the sake of showing off as “being the better”, be understanding, be the one who gives a way. Be patient, be considerate. Be… Continue reading Let’s Make This World Still A Better Place To Live
#HelloLoveGoodbye
#HelloLoveGoodbye more than a ‘RomCom’ is a movie about Filipinos working abroad and about SELF LOVE. First of all, the movie is good reminder to everyone that working abroad is NOT as easy as they think it is. Na hindi porke nagtatrabaho sa ibang bansa ay uma-anak na ng pera at pwede na hingian ng kung… Continue reading #HelloLoveGoodbye
We All Have To Start Somewhere
Start now. Start where you are. Start with fear. Start with your pain. Start with those uncertainties, questions and blur lines. It doesn’t matter what situation you are in right now, what matters is you know you have to start. Start making progress, start making a change. Start believing, start trusting. Start with the thought… Continue reading We All Have To Start Somewhere
I like me now
I think I like myself now, No buts, no ifs and hows. I used to be more needy, And now I’m more giddy. I don’t let my guard down, But now free and left my town. I’m afraid to fight alone, Right now standing still as one. I think I should let my wings fly,… Continue reading I like me now
Valuing my Values
My values are slowly becoming more apparent. I’m learning what situations to detach myself from. I’m no longer measuring the success of my happiness from the amount of social events I leave my house for, yet instead I learned to use a metric where I can validate my happiness based on the lack of agitation,… Continue reading Valuing my Values
The Beauty of Failing
Our lives are like a battlefield. We fought wars to get where we are now and we keep on fighting to get the greatest victory we ever aimed for. The ugly truth is that not all wars we face will surely be victorious at the end. Accept it, we failed most of the time, especially,… Continue reading The Beauty of Failing
Stand Out!
Today’s generation is living on a certain limited timeline. Since social media is a major asset, we can read or watch stories after stories of remarkable people on how they became successful in life whether in fitness, having good looks, wealth or in popularity which seems to be the only basis that you are somewhere… Continue reading Stand Out!
In God’s time.
I was shattered by past heartbreaks. It caused me to become uncertain about love and believed that happy endings only happen in fairytales. I intended to build the highest walls that no man can ever break nor climb. I enclosed myself in my own dark room and made myself invisible to everyone. I shut people… Continue reading In God’s time.
Para sa Lalaking Nagsabi sa Akin ng Hindi
Para sa’yo na nagsabi sa akin ng hindi, Gusto ko lang sabihin na salamat sa’yo, Salamat sa’yo dahil sa paghindi mo, Mas nakilala ko lalo ang sarili ko. Inakala ko noon pareho ating damdamin, Iyon pala ay ako lang ang umatim, Akala ko noon ngiti mong matamis dahil sa akin, Iyon pala sadyang mabait ka… Continue reading Para sa Lalaking Nagsabi sa Akin ng Hindi
CHANGE: JUST AHEAD
I am in my 25th year of living my life, and I am telling you quarter life crisis hits me so bad. It was earlier this year 2019, where I question the purpose of my existence. By the way, those past years were just amazing for me, it was overwhelming I have been through a… Continue reading CHANGE: JUST AHEAD
WHEN GOD DIDN’T LET YOUR DREAM HAPPEN
This article is not written by a person who has already achieved her dreams. Perhaps, I may be like you. A dreamer. Hoping that one day, a miracle would come and all my dreams would come true. Honestly, it’s hard to write something like this. Aiming to motivate people, when you also feel down. So… Continue reading WHEN GOD DIDN’T LET YOUR DREAM HAPPEN
Patiently loving.
I have finally learned that loving have to be patient in everything, Because when I started to finally love you, we already have our entire life to spend with. I have finally learned to expect nothing from what I have given to you. I have learned that while loving you, I have to complete every… Continue reading Patiently loving.
To the Man who was Unsure II
Dear You, I’ve learned a lot from what we had yesterday. You taught me grace. You taught me love. You taught me patience. You taught me hope. I’ve been growing because of what we had yesterday. And because of you leaving, I found more of myself. I found my strengths, I found my passion. I’ve… Continue reading To the Man who was Unsure II
To You Who Took the Risk
Dear You, I wonder how it happened. But it started somewhere. Everything starts at somewhere… Somewhere between my mind and my heart, I found something wonderful. Something that made me believe again. Somewhere along the aisle of my life, I found your words. Your words that was tested through time. Somewhere between my what ifs… Continue reading To You Who Took the Risk