Category: Adulting

Now that I am in my late 20’s, ang daming realizations and experiences ang naaalala ko. It made me look back to where I was before at kung sino na ba talaga ako ngayon. I have learned a lot from relationships, friendships, life choices and tough situations na feeling ko hindi ko na malalampasan noon.… Continue reading 10 life realizations now that I’m 27

‌When I was 5 years old my mother passed away. I was too young to realise what was going on. I did not feel grief at that time due to my young age and inocence. I can say I never really knew her, and I can only remember very few and very limited glimpse of… Continue reading Miss you

Allow yourself to be alone sometimes. Don’t let this society dictate you of what happiness should be. Happiness is not always about flowery words. It’s not always about being with someone who will wrap their arms around you at 3 in the morning. It’s not always about having someone who will knock on your door… Continue reading SELF LOVE

Here are 6 things I learned on how to give great advice. I learned these from asking advice and for giving not so good advice. 1. Listen carefully – take note of every detail, every thing that the person tells you are the most important things. 2. Ask specific questions – if you are not… Continue reading How to make a good advice?

When you try to place a dot in a bond paper, stick it to the wall and stare on it for a minute. I bet the first thing you’ll notice is the dot, no matter how small or big it is. Its reality, no matter how you’ve been good to people, what’s always being seen… Continue reading Acceptance

i hope you find your own happiness that exists on your own terms. i hope you truly take the time to figure out what moves you, what encourages your soul, what you deeply crave from life, and i hope you have the courage to believe that you are deserving of everything you desire, that you… Continue reading I hope

The glass is half full and half empty — such a conventional phrase about how we perceive things in either optimism or pessimism. But how do you see your glass? How would you choose to describe it? In reality, the rest is up to how we see the truth: that the glass has water to… Continue reading Being Half Full Doesn’t Always Mean That You Have To Be Half Empty

“Ano ba ang tamang piliin? Ang madaling paraan o ang mahirap na paraan ngunit may naghihintay na gantimpala sa dulo?” Sa mundong ito marami kang makikita na mas pinipili ang easy way kaysa sa difficult ways, tandaan mo na maghirap ka man sa daan na pinili mo ipagpatuloy mo lang dahil ito ang right way… Continue reading Right Choice of Inconvenience

Coronavirus, or COVID-19, has quickly changed the way we do life all over the world. As we are prevented from carrying out our normal life rhythms — such as going to work, meeting with people in cafes and restaurants, and going to the gym — there is ample opportunity for despair to creep in. Rather… Continue reading How to Stay Emotionally Healthy Even in Social Distancing or Isolation

“Lift your head, baby, don’t be scared, Of the things that could go wrong along the way” 2 linggo na lang at mamamaalam na ako sa highschool life ko, nakakakaba kapag iniisip ko kung ano ang mangyayari sakin pag-apak ko ng kolehiyo. Unang beses kong malalayo sa pamilya ko dahil kailangan ko magdorm at mahihirapan… Continue reading Dear incoming college students,

 A message to my grandmother She is that self-centered and self-righteous kind of person. She is too focused on her own benefits and welfare. In times of troubles, she doesn’t really shows compassion specially to most of those whom she thinks has given her less care and attention. She’s too “mataray” , so to speak… Continue reading Unconditional Love

You’ll never know unless you try. It’s better to take risks to something you really wanted to do even if it doesnt guarantee you a total success at the end. Rather than never trying doing it at all and regret for the rest of your life. Refrain from ‘playing it safe’ because it’ll never transport… Continue reading Taking Risks

I was supposed to post this yesterday but intend to seize the moment of emotional relief and regained love from one of the most important man in my life.We had a huge fight last summer, it forced me to travel thinking it’ll be my escape from locking myself in my room and weep. I immediately… Continue reading Believe In The Process and Enough Time to Heal

Have you ever experienced that people are happy that you are around? You are always there as long as they need you. You always make yourself available whenever they ask you. You tend to say no because you do not want to offend someone. But the question is? Have you ever thought about your own… Continue reading Always a Good Friend. Nothing more. Nothing Less.

On the end of the day we have no one but ourselves. Back then, I am a lost soul on the deep of the abyss far from the light. I experienced things, bad things, that I thought has no ending and that will gonna last forever. I spent most of my time thinking if I… Continue reading Self love is the best love.

You honestly think that if it was that easy for me to make a decision I wouldn’t have already made one? You seriously believe that I wouldn’t have given a straight yes or no if I knew what I wanted to happen? I’m tired. Even if you think I don’t have any right to be… Continue reading Insecurities of a Millennial