It’s normal for some folks to place a solid weight upon certain actions, almost considering them as a point-of-no-return, I figure nga it’s kind of like driving along the Halsema on a road trip. Most folks are afraid to turn around, even if they’ve realized nga they made a wrong turn somewhere and might be… Continue reading Hindi Lahat ng U-Turn ay Point of Return
Category: Relationships
If letting go is the only way…
He wasn’t mine but I’m letting him go. It’s hard to let go of someone who wasn’t been yours but your world revolves around him. It’s hard to let go of the person you knew in the first place is no longer attached. I want to let go of your hands but I don’t know… Continue reading If letting go is the only way…
Klarong wala, kaso baka…
Umaasa ka pa rin bang babalik siya? Alam mong hindi na pwede pero pinipilit mo pa ring magbakasakali. Hinihintay mo pa ring hawakan niya muli ang mga kamay mo kahit alam mong matagal na siyang nakabitaw. Siya pa rin ang iniisip at bukambibig kahit na pinilit ka na niyang kalimutan. Nagbabaka-sakaling masambit ulit ang salitang… Continue reading Klarong wala, kaso baka…
Pamagat!
Hindi alam kung… saan mag-uumpisa, saan lulugar, saan patutugo, saan tatakbo, at saan magtatapos. Dahil… walang tayo, walang lugar kung saan ba ako, walang kongkretong plano, walang taong magpagsasabihan, at hindi alam kung tayo ba. Walang Pamagat!
“BETTER LEFT UNSAID”
MAHAL MO PERO HINDI NA PARA SAYO… Mahal mo pero hindi nya na dapat malaman pa. Kasi alam mong wala na sya. Na baka lalo lang sya lumayo hanggang sa hindi mo na sya makita. Mga salitang hindi mo na dapat sabihin pa, mga bagay na hindi na nya dapat malaman pa. Kasi alam mo… Continue reading “BETTER LEFT UNSAID”
Piliin Mo ang Nararapat
Minsan kailangan mong kumawala Sa prosesong walang kasiguruhan Sa taong walang kapasiyahan Sa sitwasyong walang patutunguhan. …. Ang mabuhay ay sadyang mahirap Minsan madilim at matarik Minsan naman payapa at maliwanag Depende kung paano mo haharapin. May mga tao kang madadaanan Iba-ibang personalidad Iba-ibang pag-uugali Papakisamahan, ngunit dapat munang kilalanin. May mga tao… Continue reading Piliin Mo ang Nararapat
Accounting my feelings for you..
You’re the girl that I consider as my capital A person that I will always invest in.. Though I am not sure if you’ll be my asset I’ll risk it all even if its contingent Never have I considered you as liability Any arguments we have, please treat is as warranty An insurance that I’ll… Continue reading Accounting my feelings for you..
My Boyfriend and I decided to move out.
May 2 years na kami ng bf ko and mag 1 year na mag LIP, nakatira kami sa bahay namin. We don’t have our own room, kasama namin sa room mom ko and kapatid ko at mga anak nya. yep, wala kami privacy. Privacy na hindi lang pagdating sa intimate,pati kapag nag away kami ng… Continue reading My Boyfriend and I decided to move out.
…coz if it’s yours, it’ll stay
If love is yours to have, you don’t need to beg for it to stay. If it is real, it will stay with you no matter what. Well, of course, you have to put some effort. You have to give your best not to loose this love. But never let yourself be gone in the… Continue reading …coz if it’s yours, it’ll stay
6 of 6 Convoserye: Paano ba Galingan?-We love because…?
I know, napaka-general na tanong at maraming sanga-sangang sagot. Pero, why do we actually love? It is a beautiful feeling yet heartbreaking at some point. Are we just filling a void because we are lonely? Meron diyan, siya na, ganoon ba ‘yon? Have you actually asked yourself why you are compelled to love someone? Minsan… Continue reading 6 of 6 Convoserye: Paano ba Galingan?-We love because…?
7 Lessons from a Single Mom
Hi! I’m a single mother now because I married wrong. While I consider having my son the best thing that happened to me, still I know that things could have been better/ ideal if he were to grow up with a father. So ano ang point ko for posting this? Sa mga single dito, here… Continue reading 7 Lessons from a Single Mom
Not all the people you trusted, trust you back.
My Beastfriend, A decade and 7 months. I am grateful to the Lord for allowing me to have a friend like you. My someone to go to, my confidant, my adviser, my best critic, my hater, my beastfriend. I used to believe that I was born to support and be your cheerleader. And indeed, it… Continue reading Not all the people you trusted, trust you back.
You and me, into tomorrow
A lot of people tell me that the way to find out the one person meant for you is if you are able to see a future with that person. If you are able to see how everything will play out between the two of you – from the house, to the kids, to… Continue reading You and me, into tomorrow
PIPILIIN
Nasa proseso tayo kung saan muli nating kinikilala ang isa’t isa. Bagamat hindi naman ito ang una nating pagtatangka, subalit sa puntong ito, pinili ko na ang tumaya. Hindi dahil sa wala na akong iba pang pagpipilian pero pinili ko ang piliin ka. Sa unang pagkakataon, gusto kong malaman mo na iniwan ko ang lugar… Continue reading PIPILIIN
Permission to Choose.
Coffee over tea, Books over movies, Chocolate over vanilla. In life, we are bounded by choices, we are surrounded with things that we might like and we might not like. Same with relationships, We are also allowed to choose whom we want to spend our lives with, Some may even have a checklist of their… Continue reading Permission to Choose.
IKAW PA RIN DAHIL MAHAL KITA
Over the years, tinatanong ko ang sarili ko, “bakit ikaw pa rin?”. Ilang taon na ang nakalipas, ikaw pa din ang gusto ko, ikaw pa din ang crush ko. And every time na sinusubukan kong sagutin yung tanong na ‘yan, madaming sagot sa isip ko. Katulad na lang ng, ang ganda mo kasi, ang ganda… Continue reading IKAW PA RIN DAHIL MAHAL KITA
Our first love.
First love is always the sweetest, the one that is unexpected, the one that is uncontrollable, the one that makes you question the hows, whys, and whens, the one that makes your heart giddy every time you remember how it first started, the one that makes you laugh every time you tell them to people,… Continue reading Our first love.
How do you enter a battle unarmored?
It’s really easy to say that you’ve moved on. The real struggle though is when to say that you’re ready to free yourself from the trauma you’ve gotten from your past and start to trust people like new. Sometimes I doubt myself if I would ever be happy again without questioning other people’s ability to… Continue reading How do you enter a battle unarmored?
5 of 6 Convoserye: Paano ba Galingan?-Emotional Maturity
Nasabihan ka na bang, “Para kang bata mag-isip!” o “Mag-usap na lang tayo ‘pag ok na pananaw mo sa buhay”? Masasabi mo bang emotionally matured ka na kapag di ka pumatol? Ang isang taong emotionally mature can manage their feelings in almost any situation. May strong sense of empathy at alam kung paano mag-deescalate ng… Continue reading 5 of 6 Convoserye: Paano ba Galingan?-Emotional Maturity
As The Famous Saying Goes… “SANA ALL”
Did you get to watch My Amanda on Netflix? Didn’t it make you want to have a relationship like Fuffy and Fream? These days, it’s hard to find a ride or die that will stick with you through everything, kaya nga sana all talaga yung experience nila. To those who haven’t seen the movie yet,… Continue reading As The Famous Saying Goes… “SANA ALL”
” The Warmth We Once Had “
” Was there a lifetime waiting for us, in a world where I was yours? “– Ben & Ben This is my another confession after I posted the first one. Sinabi ko noong nakaraan na, ” I’ll keep this feeling as a motivation because I will remember na minsan, may isang tao na nagpa-realize sa… Continue reading ” The Warmth We Once Had “
4 of 6 Convoserye: Paano ba Galingan?
-Patience Most of us would want to immediately get rid of the pain we feel. It is a heavy burden we want to unload from our shoulders because it hinders us from the things we usually do and affects our state of being. Be patient. It will take time. It is a battle you need… Continue reading 4 of 6 Convoserye: Paano ba Galingan?
To the Man I have yet to Meet
I miss you. From the day I opened my eyes to this world, I know you exist. Somewhere, somehow we will meet, I will know you, you will know me. The question that lingers in my mind is that: “How will I know that you are the one for me?” Day by day, I grew… Continue reading To the Man I have yet to Meet
3 of 6 Convoserye: Paano ba Galingan? -Develop your self-worth
Lagi nating nakikita dito sa community ang mga salitang “Know your worth” But it is not just about knowing what your worth is, it is about developing it within yourself. Alam mo nga pero you are not doing anything about it. Here are some things that might work: 1. INCREASE YOUR SELF-UNDERSTANDING Alamin mo kung… Continue reading 3 of 6 Convoserye: Paano ba Galingan? -Develop your self-worth
2 of 6 Convoserye: Paano ba Galingan?-Finance over romance
-Finance over romance Disclaimer: Ganito lang talaga ako mag-handle ng pera bago pa ito maglaho. Naka-ipon naman 1. Budget before each sahod Unahin ang savings at needs before wants. Prioritize! NEEDS – food, utility bills, housing, transportation WANTS – excessive make-up, piyesa ng sasakyan ulit, additional house décors, etc. Sabi nila ang rule of thumb… Continue reading 2 of 6 Convoserye: Paano ba Galingan?-Finance over romance
BFF Checklist
When all things go wrong, your BFF is the one person who finds the perfect balance between smothering you with support and offering you tough love. Do you think you have that type of BFF? Check out our BFF Checklist: Patient – Your BFF is a listener and can sit through all of your rants,… Continue reading BFF Checklist
1 of 6 Convoserye: Paano ba Galingan? -Validate your feelings
-Validate your feelings Kahit anong tagal pa ng pinagsamahan: 10 years? 5 years? 1 year? 6 months? 6 weeks? 6 days? Kung nasaktan ka, nasaktan ka. Sa kung ano pa mang dahilan, iba man ang may mali, siya man ang may mali, ikaw man mismo ang may mali at kung parehas man kayong mali,… Continue reading 1 of 6 Convoserye: Paano ba Galingan? -Validate your feelings
Letter to my Future: The Beauty of the Healing Season
To my Future, I don’t know if we have met yet, but, in case we did, I might still be in the process of healing. I have let myself fall into holes many times. This is me preparing for your coming. For me to be able to perfectly (or imperfectly) know the knows of life,… Continue reading Letter to my Future: The Beauty of the Healing Season
Together Forever or Forever Just Friends?
There is a saying that a guy and a girl can’t be just best friends since it is inevitable that someone will fall for the other. There’s also that “nakakakilig” tension that happens when teasing occurs and you can’t help but think, “What if?” Is this person really just going to be a friend or… Continue reading Together Forever or Forever Just Friends?
Sa ngayon diko pa kaya.
Martir– ikaw, sila, kayo pero alam ko… ako. 2 taon simula ng una kita nkita. Nakakatuwa naman talaga kahit hanggang ngayon sobra kilig pa rin ako sa akap at halik mo at hawak sa aking mga palad na puro na kalyo pa.Andun pa din naman yung mga iba pero alam ko at ramdam ko na… Continue reading Sa ngayon diko pa kaya.