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Tag: relationship
Unrequited Love
How ironic that I used to look at each sunset with a smile thinking that another sunrise is gonna be a day closer to you. Now sunset only reminds me that everything, albeit beautiful and lovely would always come to an end.
“Love, Alex”
It took a while for me to have the courage of surrendering all the bitterness and anger to the Lord, our God. Despite that, you’re always worth the pain. I’m sorry for making you end the relationship. I hurt you, I’m sorry. I’m sorry for jumping into things quickly and without any proper analysation. Without… Continue reading “Love, Alex”
Balikong Pana
Ito na naman ako, Nagmamahal ng patago, Umiiyak sa sulok. Kupido, baliko na naman ang pagpana mo. Nahulog na naman ako, Sa taong hindi ako masalo-salo. Bawat araw ay pagpapanggap ang aking ginagawa, Upang ikaw ay makausap, magdamag. Akala ko, gusto mo na din ako. Linya mong, “Baka makuha ka pa ng iba.” Tila’y isang… Continue reading Balikong Pana
My ALMOST
As I am writing this post, I am scrolling through old scribbles and notes which had me recall a time where I experienced an almost relationship. It was probably the hardest breakup(in a sense with myself since we never really did have one) that I had to go through. We all might not admit it… Continue reading My ALMOST
To The Heartache That I Never Had
To you who never said a word, Who chose to love me from a distance. To the one who never had a chance, The one whom I silently adore. The one whose priority is the Lord. — Thank you for all the things we’ve shared, Thank you for all your efforts unheard. Thank you for… Continue reading To The Heartache That I Never Had
To the hunter on the unknown valley
How are you, man? I hope you’re not getting tired of hunting on the right place where you can bring down your intentions. Being a man requires you to step up pursuing the one you’ve been looking for. You’re on the wild valley where not everything you see is comfortable and easy. Nature requires you… Continue reading To the hunter on the unknown valley
A letter to my kababata
We have known each other since we were kids, yet it’s only now that we’re really knowing more about each other. I never knew your favorite color, your favorite food, nor your favorite basketball team. In all that time that we were together, we just enjoyed each other’s company. Playing as kids with what is,… Continue reading A letter to my kababata
Bloom while waiting!
Dear Human, Stay single until you meet a person who is sure of you and never makes you doubt how he/she feels. The one who is certain of you and his/her career and a future he/she wants you a part of. Stay single until you find someone who can match your loyalty. Stay single until… Continue reading Bloom while waiting!
I just wanted to BELONG
Self pity is something that most of us experienced in our lives. Specifically, it was more likely experience in a relationships. I myself is a testimonial to that! I am loving a person that I cannot be my real self and cannot accept me, keeps on dragging my past mistakes that he keeps in defining… Continue reading I just wanted to BELONG
Make it short but real
Holding onto someone does not mean it will make you happier; Letting go of someone does not mean it will make you feel lighter; And doing the right thing does not mean it will now be easier.
Finally, we’re married.
“Dear“, that’s what you call me. You said that you’ve chose it because for you, it means someone who is close to your heart. You are decade older than I, and it’s almost funny how you tried to meet me halfway. When I was lost and scared, you were my knight in shining armor. You… Continue reading Finally, we’re married.
To The Woman Who I Am Waiting For
To the woman I am waiting for, I am amazed on how things went well between the two of us and on how we enjoy every moment when we are together. It seems like we’ve known each other for so long, when in fact, we’ve just met recently. I know that you don’t want to… Continue reading To The Woman Who I Am Waiting For
Confessions of a love freak
Puppy love? Yung may crush ka nung elementary tapos dadaan sya sa labas ng classroom nyo tapos para ka ng uod na nilagyan ng asin sa sobrang kilig. Yung kapag intrams sa school tapos mag cheer ka sa crush mo, kilig from a distance kasi ang gwapo/ganda nya kahit pawis. (Disclaimer: Im turning 22, I don’t… Continue reading Confessions of a love freak
Thoughts in My Mid 20’s: This Is Not A Contest of Who Dated More
Ever since I bought my mom a new phone, I constantly hear her watching Raffy Tulfo’s Youtube channel. To be honest, it’s funny hearing about other people arguing about their personal life publicly because that is something I am afraid to do. The topic here is not actually about how funny people are, I brought… Continue reading Thoughts in My Mid 20’s: This Is Not A Contest of Who Dated More
Be The Person You Want To Find
Many books on relationships will tell you how to find and keep the right person, how to develop your communication skills – even how to properly “brand” yourself with the right set of attributes to attract a partner. While these resources offer plenty of helpful advice, they tend to overlook one important fact: The quest… Continue reading Be The Person You Want To Find
My Definition of True Love.
If you truly love someone, no matter how he/she hurts you, you will always try to understand.
Give yourself closure but do not close your heart.
We cry for closure when we are left hanging. But, what if silence actually meant closure? That it was God’s hint to let go and let Him do His craft? When you prayed for the right one, God knew he wasn’t THE one so He removed him from your life. God wants you to realize… Continue reading Give yourself closure but do not close your heart.
…and in the end
I am pretty sure that your mind is still thinking about possible reasons why two of you didn’t work out and why you should still be together, the feeling that your heart is aching and your mind is trying his best to undo the pain. The truth is, love changes all the time. One day,… Continue reading …and in the end
Tell Me Anything
If you wanna talk but you don’t have words Send me your playlist, We’ll listen to every song in it.Suggest a movie or series,We’ll discuss each part of it Tag me in silly photos and memes Or we could just chat about our dreams.Or maybe we could talk about the future,To travel around and experience… Continue reading Tell Me Anything
Unspoken Bond
Deeper bond has started to sprout. I now have someone to vent my feelings out. You even cheer me up when my days aren’t merryMy friend, I thought this stuff was healthy. You share your favorite music and moviesYou talk about your weaknesses and strengthsWhen I share mine, you take time to hearYou’re creating these… Continue reading Unspoken Bond
23
It was my 23rd birthdayYou promised to come But the night was overNo glimpse of your shadow in the windowNo sweet greetings, no text or callI was drunk happy for nothingI missed you so muchBut my heart was bleeding alwaysSmall talks but we were on fireI lowered my pride and ate my wordsBut still it… Continue reading 23
Never Make The Same Mistake (Choice) Again
When I first met you, I never had a clue that we can happen. I never had a clue that someday I get to decide to spend my lifetime with you. We’ve been together for years and you became both a man of my dreams and an ideal best friend. Everyday was perfect even if… Continue reading Never Make The Same Mistake (Choice) Again
Stoplight
Lies and secrets are spare parts of sorrowsMy friend, please stop for a whileDo you really know your worth?Stop pursuing and begging the wrong personNot loving you back and inflicting chaos emotionally.The road is too wide to drive, good for racing not chasing. Your heart is still trafficked to someone You are not aware from… Continue reading Stoplight
Almost
It was there. Almost. The words were promising. Music to her ears. Convincing in a way. She almost fell for it. Late night talks and serenades. Those sweet smiles and cheesy lines. It was there. She almost fell for it. The plans and promises. As if the future is in his hands. Couldn’t be any… Continue reading Almost
Sa-ka-na-lang.
Saka nalang ulit kita tatawaging “baby”, kapag tunay ka ng akin Saka nalang ulit kita ichachat, kapag ako lang talaga ang gusto mong kausap, Saka nalang ulit ako sasakay sa kotse mo, kapag ako na ang gusto mong kasama sa long drive, Saka nalang ulit ako tatambay sa inyong bahay kahit nahihiya ako, kapag ako… Continue reading Sa-ka-na-lang.
Was there a lifetime waiting for us in a world where I was yours?
I really wanted to burst into tears upon hearing Ben & Ben’s ‘Lifetime’ so I decided to express how I feel and how I remember you thru this song. Was there a lifetime waiting for us in a world where I was yours? It’s kinda hard to accept that there is no way in this world that you would see me the way I see you. Obvious naman, Kuya. Minahal… Continue reading Was there a lifetime waiting for us in a world where I was yours?
Always
I am not easy to love You may say that I am a damsel in distress; A collection of paradoxes; a chaos I came with warning signs; with red flags Slightly damaged; slightly used but still functioning It’s been years since that magical feeling knocked on my door They call it love I did not… Continue reading Always
The 3 C’s Of Great Relationship
CLARITY Clarity is the state of being clear. Know what your intentions are in a relationship. Intentions are meant to be pure and clear. A relationship is like journeying to a particular place. With clear intentions you are more likely to reach your goal that is to arrive at your final destination. Your intentions and… Continue reading The 3 C’s Of Great Relationship
What if hindi naging tayo?
Kung hindi naging tayo, hindi sana kita hahanapin sa bawat taong makiklala ko. Unang pagkaka-mali ko pala ‘nung nahuli ko ang sarili ko na naka-titig sa’yo. Naubos lang ang oras ko sa kaka-pantasya kung hawak ko ang kamay mo. Kung sana lang, nanatili ako sa lugar ko, walang nawasak na puso. Wala sanang nasaktan, wala… Continue reading What if hindi naging tayo?