Even if the friendship ends, be trustworthy enough to keep the stories that were shared.

A friendship dies for a reason. It may be painful for us, especially if you really had a good bond, but it’s always for the good of both sides. All we have to do is accept that people come and go and learn to be happy where they are. Do not blame yourself or your… Continue reading Even if the friendship ends, be trustworthy enough to keep the stories that were shared.

Palayain mo na ang sarili mo sa mga “what-ifs” mo sa kanya.

Lumaya ka na sa mga “what-ifs” mo sa kanya. Na “what if” magparamdam ulit siya, o mangamusta?“What if” may chance pa, hindi lang talaga good yung timing sa ngayon?“What if” hinihintay lang pala niya akong mangamusta?“What if” bumalik siya? Simula nang iwan ka niya, dapat pati “what-ifs” mo putulin mo na.Huwag mo nang ikulong ang… Continue reading Palayain mo na ang sarili mo sa mga “what-ifs” mo sa kanya.

For Ben.

I wish God made more “you” so I can have one. It’s not that I am in a rush for love.I know Patience and LoveAnd how they agreed to meet at the same time and place.But drift aimlessly aroundBecause Patience lost it.Then Love tapped, and said“Stop looking for me.”“I will find you.” I know Love… Continue reading For Ben.

Comeback Isn’t Real (Hindi Lahat Dapat Balikan)

After breakups, cool offs, hanapin-ko-lang-sarili-ko momints, and such, people around often romanticize the idea saying, “If you truly love someone, then win him/her back.” Funny how they put an intensifier ‘truly’, when in fact it meant the opposite for some. However, the truth is that the so-called comeback depends on the situation. If the past… Continue reading Comeback Isn’t Real (Hindi Lahat Dapat Balikan)

The defeat of waiting..

open letter to my future husband in the times of waiting.. Few days ago seemed so rough for us, situations after situations begin to scramble us up. We never expect anything to happen but problems after problems came at our doorstep.“Hindi lagi okay. hindi lagi masaya.”That is always true about relationships, because we are never… Continue reading The defeat of waiting..

Vacation Romances Don’t Last

Thoughts flowing early in the morning Until very late in the evening. Endless seas of white And blue bubbles and pings. Who thought that you from a different nation Could hold deep conversations. Sixteen hours of flight Turned into a great delight. Escaped from dating app to real life To finally see your brown eyes.… Continue reading Vacation Romances Don’t Last

Broken-trusted

You knew I don’t give up my trust so easily You knew it was something I held close to my heart You knew my fears, my thoughts, my woes and my worries So I trusted you Because I don’t feel like running away anymore Because I want to stay this time I want to hang… Continue reading Broken-trusted

Salamat sa hindi pagpili sa akin

Ikaw ang unang naghatid ng mensahe Ikaw ang unang naghatid ng mga imahe Ikaw ang unang nakaisip ng ating tawagan Ikaw ang unang nakaisip na ako’y tawagan Ikaw ang unang nagbigay ng atensyon Sayo galing lahat ng yon Sayo Ikaw ang unang naghinala Ikaw ang unang nawalan ng tiwala Ikaw ang unang nagsabing baka bigla… Continue reading Salamat sa hindi pagpili sa akin

Ipaglalaban Kong Isuko Ka Na

Ako, ito, dito. Sa tagpuan nang ‘di mawaring dako. Sa lokasyon nang ‘di mawaring anggulo. Itutuwid na ang liko. Maninindigan na’t hindi magtatago. Para na rin matigil ang gulo, Mahal, lalaban ako. Pero hindi… Para sa’yo. Away-bati. Buo, kalahati. Okay tayo tapos maya-maya hindi. Ang gulo lang! Ang hirap umintindi. ‘Yung hindi naman tama pero… Continue reading Ipaglalaban Kong Isuko Ka Na

6 of 6 Convoserye: Paano ba Galingan?-We love because…?

I know, napaka-general na tanong at maraming sanga-sangang sagot. Pero, why do we actually love? It is a beautiful feeling yet heartbreaking at some point. Are we just filling a void because we are lonely? Meron diyan, siya na, ganoon ba ‘yon? Have you actually asked yourself why you are compelled to love someone? Minsan… Continue reading 6 of 6 Convoserye: Paano ba Galingan?-We love because…?

Our first love.

First love is always the sweetest, the one that is unexpected, the one that is uncontrollable, the one that makes you question the hows, whys, and whens, the one that makes your heart giddy every time you remember how it first started, the one that makes you laugh every time you tell them to people,… Continue reading Our first love.

5 of 6 Convoserye: Paano ba Galingan?-Emotional Maturity

Nasabihan ka na bang, “Para kang bata mag-isip!” o “Mag-usap na lang tayo ‘pag ok na pananaw mo sa buhay”? Masasabi mo bang emotionally matured ka na kapag di ka pumatol? Ang isang taong emotionally mature can manage their feelings in almost any situation. May strong sense of empathy at alam kung paano mag-deescalate ng… Continue reading 5 of 6 Convoserye: Paano ba Galingan?-Emotional Maturity

When you know you are not ready to commit. It’s okay to bail out.

I met this guy through dating app. I installed the app out of boredom ( alone in the apartment and nothing much to do during work off and can’t travel due to travel restrictions). I thought it would be nice talking to strangers and fooling around. One swipe right and it was a matched. We… Continue reading When you know you are not ready to commit. It’s okay to bail out.

3 of 6 Convoserye: Paano ba Galingan? -Develop your self-worth

Lagi nating nakikita dito sa community ang mga salitang “Know your worth” But it is not just about knowing what your worth is, it is about developing it within yourself. Alam mo nga pero you are not doing anything about it. Here are some things that might work: 1. INCREASE YOUR SELF-UNDERSTANDING Alamin mo kung… Continue reading 3 of 6 Convoserye: Paano ba Galingan? -Develop your self-worth

Fragile Mindset

  I just want to be someone who gives comfort, but becomes misunderstood of being interested I just want to tell them how special they are, without a hint of malice or doubt I just want to become a listener for them to feel, that there is someone who’ll listen,  and share and make it… Continue reading Fragile Mindset

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