A friendship dies for a reason. It may be painful for us, especially if you really had a good bond, but it’s always for the good of both sides. All we have to do is accept that people come and go and learn to be happy where they are. Do not blame yourself or your… Continue reading Even if the friendship ends, be trustworthy enough to keep the stories that were shared.
Tag: Relationships
Palayain mo na ang sarili mo sa mga “what-ifs” mo sa kanya.
Lumaya ka na sa mga “what-ifs” mo sa kanya. Na “what if” magparamdam ulit siya, o mangamusta?“What if” may chance pa, hindi lang talaga good yung timing sa ngayon?“What if” hinihintay lang pala niya akong mangamusta?“What if” bumalik siya? Simula nang iwan ka niya, dapat pati “what-ifs” mo putulin mo na.Huwag mo nang ikulong ang… Continue reading Palayain mo na ang sarili mo sa mga “what-ifs” mo sa kanya.
For Ben.
I wish God made more “you” so I can have one. It’s not that I am in a rush for love.I know Patience and LoveAnd how they agreed to meet at the same time and place.But drift aimlessly aroundBecause Patience lost it.Then Love tapped, and said“Stop looking for me.”“I will find you.” I know Love… Continue reading For Ben.
Finding beauty in the broken hearts
God uses broken things. It takes broken soil to produce a crop, broken clouds to give rain, broken grain to give bread, and broken bread to give strength. – Vance Havner
To all the Good Guys Out There
I hope you continue breaking the norm that guys aren’t faithful and trustworthy.
Comeback Isn’t Real (Hindi Lahat Dapat Balikan)
After breakups, cool offs, hanapin-ko-lang-sarili-ko momints, and such, people around often romanticize the idea saying, “If you truly love someone, then win him/her back.” Funny how they put an intensifier ‘truly’, when in fact it meant the opposite for some. However, the truth is that the so-called comeback depends on the situation. If the past… Continue reading Comeback Isn’t Real (Hindi Lahat Dapat Balikan)
Sun and …not Moon
Sol, my almost, What is the essence of morning without you? How unfair and how playful the fate is, that even in my perihelion, I, somehow, am still off the beaten path and watch you from afar as I revolve. I know I shouldn’t, but at some point, I envy luna. I’m jealous by the… Continue reading Sun and …not Moon
The defeat of waiting..
open letter to my future husband in the times of waiting.. Few days ago seemed so rough for us, situations after situations begin to scramble us up. We never expect anything to happen but problems after problems came at our doorstep.“Hindi lagi okay. hindi lagi masaya.”That is always true about relationships, because we are never… Continue reading The defeat of waiting..
Liberating Notes: To all the Good Guys who Couldn’t Pursue
Pursue her- because you can.
Loving a Breadwinner…
Hey there, my future. Loving me would probably be the most difficult relationship you would ever have to be involved in. Loving me would mean you have to broaden your understanding. Loving me would mean you have to understand that you’re not always the priority. Loving me would mean you would have to wait until… Continue reading Loving a Breadwinner…
Vacation Romances Don’t Last
Thoughts flowing early in the morning Until very late in the evening. Endless seas of white And blue bubbles and pings. Who thought that you from a different nation Could hold deep conversations. Sixteen hours of flight Turned into a great delight. Escaped from dating app to real life To finally see your brown eyes.… Continue reading Vacation Romances Don’t Last
Broken-trusted
You knew I don’t give up my trust so easily You knew it was something I held close to my heart You knew my fears, my thoughts, my woes and my worries So I trusted you Because I don’t feel like running away anymore Because I want to stay this time I want to hang… Continue reading Broken-trusted
The Letters I Never Sent You
July 17, 2020 … Continue reading The Letters I Never Sent You
Salamat sa hindi pagpili sa akin
Ikaw ang unang naghatid ng mensahe Ikaw ang unang naghatid ng mga imahe Ikaw ang unang nakaisip ng ating tawagan Ikaw ang unang nakaisip na ako’y tawagan Ikaw ang unang nagbigay ng atensyon Sayo galing lahat ng yon Sayo Ikaw ang unang naghinala Ikaw ang unang nawalan ng tiwala Ikaw ang unang nagsabing baka bigla… Continue reading Salamat sa hindi pagpili sa akin
An Open Letter to my “The One”
In this life, I only have my eyes on you. My heart will beat only for you. I will always think about you, pray for you.I want to experience joy and to laugh while i bully you. Cook you that favorite meal. Stare at you while you sleep and snore at the middle of the… Continue reading An Open Letter to my “The One”
A reminder to a good man
I love you and it’s wonderful I never thought I would fall in love again. Sometimes, I wonder if this love is an illusion or maybe I am just denying the fact that someone like you caught my attention. I think I love you and I can’t fight this feeling anymore. I will never deny… Continue reading A reminder to a good man
This Would Be The Last…
Hello, my Love. I wonder why you always tell me about your flaws, and you never forget to mention all of those before you even state a word as permission prior to your intense but gentle confrontation with me. My darling, I will never get tired of constantly telling you that your imperfections are perfectly… Continue reading This Would Be The Last…
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Loveeeee
Limitado
feelings
You are worthy of Love
Has there ever been a time where you question yourself why they always leave you behind? Why they let go of your hands when things get rough? Why you are left alone when you needed them the most? As a result, you feel betrayed and miserable thinking that you are not worthy of any love?… Continue reading You are worthy of Love
Aisle
This is not a fling, I am a man that goes for a ring.
Ipaglalaban Kong Isuko Ka Na
Ako, ito, dito. Sa tagpuan nang ‘di mawaring dako. Sa lokasyon nang ‘di mawaring anggulo. Itutuwid na ang liko. Maninindigan na’t hindi magtatago. Para na rin matigil ang gulo, Mahal, lalaban ako. Pero hindi… Para sa’yo. Away-bati. Buo, kalahati. Okay tayo tapos maya-maya hindi. Ang gulo lang! Ang hirap umintindi. ‘Yung hindi naman tama pero… Continue reading Ipaglalaban Kong Isuko Ka Na
6 of 6 Convoserye: Paano ba Galingan?-We love because…?
I know, napaka-general na tanong at maraming sanga-sangang sagot. Pero, why do we actually love? It is a beautiful feeling yet heartbreaking at some point. Are we just filling a void because we are lonely? Meron diyan, siya na, ganoon ba ‘yon? Have you actually asked yourself why you are compelled to love someone? Minsan… Continue reading 6 of 6 Convoserye: Paano ba Galingan?-We love because…?
You and me, into tomorrow
A lot of people tell me that the way to find out the one person meant for you is if you are able to see a future with that person. If you are able to see how everything will play out between the two of you – from the house, to the kids, to… Continue reading You and me, into tomorrow
Our first love.
First love is always the sweetest, the one that is unexpected, the one that is uncontrollable, the one that makes you question the hows, whys, and whens, the one that makes your heart giddy every time you remember how it first started, the one that makes you laugh every time you tell them to people,… Continue reading Our first love.
5 of 6 Convoserye: Paano ba Galingan?-Emotional Maturity
Nasabihan ka na bang, “Para kang bata mag-isip!” o “Mag-usap na lang tayo ‘pag ok na pananaw mo sa buhay”? Masasabi mo bang emotionally matured ka na kapag di ka pumatol? Ang isang taong emotionally mature can manage their feelings in almost any situation. May strong sense of empathy at alam kung paano mag-deescalate ng… Continue reading 5 of 6 Convoserye: Paano ba Galingan?-Emotional Maturity
When you know you are not ready to commit. It’s okay to bail out.
I met this guy through dating app. I installed the app out of boredom ( alone in the apartment and nothing much to do during work off and can’t travel due to travel restrictions). I thought it would be nice talking to strangers and fooling around. One swipe right and it was a matched. We… Continue reading When you know you are not ready to commit. It’s okay to bail out.
3 of 6 Convoserye: Paano ba Galingan? -Develop your self-worth
Lagi nating nakikita dito sa community ang mga salitang “Know your worth” But it is not just about knowing what your worth is, it is about developing it within yourself. Alam mo nga pero you are not doing anything about it. Here are some things that might work: 1. INCREASE YOUR SELF-UNDERSTANDING Alamin mo kung… Continue reading 3 of 6 Convoserye: Paano ba Galingan? -Develop your self-worth
Fragile Mindset
I just want to be someone who gives comfort, but becomes misunderstood of being interested I just want to tell them how special they are, without a hint of malice or doubt I just want to become a listener for them to feel, that there is someone who’ll listen, and share and make it… Continue reading Fragile Mindset
Opposites Did Attract
You’ve always loved the morning dawns…. but I am a bigger fan of sunsets’ differing hues. You like your Milktea with those extra chewy pearls while I always order a cup of cold brew Americano. You are fond of counting the sparkly stars, of pointing the Orion and the Big Dipper… while I simply enjoy… Continue reading Opposites Did Attract